It’s always so interesting to read your comments every time we have to discuss a topic on relationships. The last time we discussed something similar about what men find most attractive in women, we had an interesting debate in the comment section. I’m positive today’s topic is even gonna be hotter!
So, tell me SL Fabz, what are the general traits that women find attractive in men?
As usual, I asked around and these are the most common responses I got.
1. A good physique: Most Naija women like their men tall, dark and handsome. Ok, maybe not all like them dark, but most likely tall and handsome with a good physique that speaks of confidence and good composure.
2. A financially comfortable man: A woman is attracted to a man who can take care of himself financially, and also his family. A man who is financially capable of giving his woman comfort is usually more attractive than a man who can’t in most cases.
3. A romantic man: Find a man who can say ‘I love you‘ at the right time, who knows when to take his woman on romantic dates, buy her romantic gifts… and you’ve found a woman’s man.
4. ______________
Let me stop here and allow you to complete the list. What do women find most attractive in men?
39 Comments
Sammy
February 7, 2015 at 10:33 pmIT IS CRYSTAL WHAT WOMEN WANT:
MONEY! MONEY!! MONEY!!! #evrybody’sopinionforsure
ify Edwin
February 7, 2015 at 10:37 pmFor me a man who has the fear of God, when that I mean who has a personal relationship with holy spirit because it is very important.
Henry denna
February 8, 2015 at 8:20 amHmmm thats true
Mamud Tarawally
February 7, 2015 at 10:47 pmSome woman like men for money and some like men because u ar good looking.
okoro francis uchechi
February 7, 2015 at 11:02 pmTo me it is not all about tall or short, handsome or financial stability though they are among but it is all about ur personality because good look attract the eyes but good personality attract the heart so loving a man because of his look or wealth is wrong because this things can change in case of accident like those that their goods got burned at Lagos island recently so love the behavior not physical appearance because nothing last forever. So ladies love a man that even when the love is not there,he can still make u laugh because it is not all about love but frifriendship…..
Ismail
February 12, 2015 at 8:06 amI agree with fey and Uchechi
tyra
February 7, 2015 at 11:26 pmNot necessary tall…A man who has the fear if God…..and can be able to.take care of his woman any time and any day.
Attakorah
February 7, 2015 at 11:39 pmWht girls like most is money.Love is understanding.Because of the money he has he will turn u a useless slave so pls be wise.pls ladies don’t sell ur love for money
portia
February 7, 2015 at 11:44 pmD voice. I like muscular,tall and a deep bassed man. D deeper their voices are ,d more secured,u feel around them. If they sing in trebble like I do, I sense weakness from them. I believe,a man’s level of strienght,is his voice, how deep it is.
Helena kings
February 8, 2015 at 12:55 amHis Smiles.
If a lady is out to extort money from a guy, then there is no love.
As for me, my “Remio’s” smile keeps me going.
Fey
February 8, 2015 at 2:09 ami strongly agree with point number 1,2,3. Inaddition to the stated attributes I believe a man respected by his family is one thing a woman wants , because when his family (younger and older) doesn’t respect him then the woman wouldn’t be comfortable.
Mr Ola from Abuja
February 8, 2015 at 5:14 amwhat most woman find attractive in men is the level of understanding, ability to accommodate, sense of humor, the fear of God, hygienic, listening, lastly ability to appreciate and that three words I LOVE U!!!!
Scot
February 8, 2015 at 7:02 am#OWO NI KOKO
Abdul lateef Idris
February 8, 2015 at 7:41 amwomen like men DAT are truthfulness, faithfully and men DAT are courageous.
Derick
February 8, 2015 at 8:02 amBelieving an accepting all the physical aspects that attracts a woman to man; one most fundamental is the man’s ability in bed; dressing and self presentation.
yetty
February 8, 2015 at 8:17 amA man who put God first and love him. Only then can he love u perfectly!
zara
February 8, 2015 at 8:41 amA man who never considered common mistakes of his woman….who is caring and ready to respond romantically to his woman whenever she needs him.
A respective man to the woman and to the family…u should know wah I mean. thanks
Anigbo Ngozi
February 8, 2015 at 8:59 amfor me.a tall man with positive potentials,hard working toward achieving his goals.
deby
February 8, 2015 at 9:16 ama luvin carin an God fearin man
Racheal Laye Edward
February 8, 2015 at 10:53 amA Guy with money o, lots of it!
An intelligent guy,
A guy who dresses well,
A dependable guy,
A guy of his words,
Tall, handsome, romantic guy who loves God
Akim
February 12, 2015 at 4:09 pmNa Robot u dey look 4. or Maybe the man inside Alice in the wonderland story. You better wake up from your slumber.
imranshavetadme
February 8, 2015 at 12:28 pmFor me i thing luv is like a segarate, it start up with sparkles, later with burns n end up with arshes………. re chain lovers.
esythzher tyhnie
February 8, 2015 at 1:32 pmlove is all a bout honesty
obetta ene stella
February 8, 2015 at 1:59 pmBedmatic ooooookkkkkkk
Surveyor Jeremiah
February 8, 2015 at 2:14 pmmost women like truthfull, well dressed men and unselfish, carring MEN
Kanu
February 8, 2015 at 3:15 pmIn my own view,Personality crowns everything about LOVE.It count on any aspect of LOVE.
Samuel
February 8, 2015 at 4:29 pmTRUTHFULLNESS
Woman also like men that will tell dem all the truth they need toknow about,be it in friendship,lover or husband and wife
chinwe
February 8, 2015 at 4:43 pmHe must be intelligent and honest
eddy
February 8, 2015 at 5:14 pmNothing but Mooooooneeeeey!
Helen martin
February 8, 2015 at 5:15 pmMen have nothing to discuss
Ebere
February 8, 2015 at 6:36 pmA God fearing man counts as most important man.
JAMES
February 8, 2015 at 7:40 pmA man that love God. Any man that does not lobe can love his wife. Bible says husband love your wife as Christ love his church and gave himself for it. God has commanded a man to love his wife and for a to obey that command he must first has the love of God. So girl pray for your to love God he will in turn love u
lilian
February 8, 2015 at 11:40 pmHis personality
Solomon Kyambadde
February 9, 2015 at 7:23 amPersonality and ideology towards relationship is all wat i mind about not leaving the christian faith
Eugenia Amonoo
February 9, 2015 at 5:42 pmA God fearing man hansom n tall who is doing his own work
Elias
February 10, 2015 at 6:04 pmA Man Who Is Working, Love God,and Care For The Welbeing Of Others,who Don’t Drink A Lot,
BUORO ISAAC
February 10, 2015 at 10:06 pmOnly ladies are permitted to be short but guys are not. Why?
Frank
February 12, 2015 at 3:06 amInsecurity is a major problem of the world population today and women make a fraction of the total, majority of which are vulnerable physically, acedemically, economically and politically so there is no doubts they need a man who is stronge in these area in respective of color or height . So a guy must be strong, intelligent, rich and of good leadership quality
Clementine
February 26, 2015 at 6:30 pmI like a man who can make me laugh even when I don’t feel like it: when I feel like the world is coming down on me, etc.