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What Do Women Find Most Attractive In Men?

It’s always so interesting to read your comments every time we have to discuss a topic on relationships. The last time we discussed something similar about what men find most attractive in women, we had an interesting debate in the comment section. I’m positive today’s topic is even gonna be hotter!

So, tell me SL Fabz, what are the general traits that women find attractive in men?

As usual, I asked around and these are the most common responses I got.

1. A good physique: Most Naija women like their men tall, dark and handsome. Ok, maybe not all like them dark, but most likely tall and handsome with a good physique that speaks of confidence and good composure.

2. A financially comfortable man: A woman is attracted to a man who can take care of himself financially, and also his family. A man who is financially capable of giving his woman comfort¬†is usually more attractive than a man who can’t in most cases.

3. A romantic man: Find a man who can say ‘I love you‘ at the right time, who knows when to take his woman on romantic dates, buy her romantic gifts… and you’ve found a woman’s man.

4. ______________

Let me stop here and allow you to complete the list. What do women find most attractive in men?

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    February 7, 2015 at 10:33 pm

    MONEY! MONEY!! MONEY!!! #evrybody’sopinionforsure

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    ify Edwin
    February 7, 2015 at 10:37 pm

    For me a man who has the fear of God, when that I mean who has a personal relationship with holy spirit because it is very important.

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      Henry denna
      February 8, 2015 at 8:20 am

      Hmmm thats true

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    Mamud Tarawally
    February 7, 2015 at 10:47 pm

    Some woman like men for money and some like men because u ar good looking.

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    okoro francis uchechi
    February 7, 2015 at 11:02 pm

    To me it is not all about tall or short, handsome or financial stability though they are among but it is all about ur personality because good look attract the eyes but good personality attract the heart so loving a man because of his look or wealth is wrong because this things can change in case of accident like those that their goods got burned at Lagos island recently so love the behavior not physical appearance because nothing last forever. So ladies love a man that even when the love is not there,he can still make u laugh because it is not all about love but frifriendship…..

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      February 12, 2015 at 8:06 am

      I agree with fey and Uchechi

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    February 7, 2015 at 11:26 pm

    Not necessary tall…A man who has the fear if God…..and can be able to.take care of his woman any time and any day.

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    February 7, 2015 at 11:39 pm

    Wht girls like most is money.Love is understanding.Because of the money he has he will turn u a useless slave so pls be wise.pls ladies don’t sell ur love for money

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    February 7, 2015 at 11:44 pm

    D voice. I like muscular,tall and a deep bassed man. D deeper their voices are ,d more secured,u feel around them. If they sing in trebble like I do, I sense weakness from them. I believe,a man’s level of strienght,is his voice, how deep it is.

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    Helena kings
    February 8, 2015 at 12:55 am

    His Smiles.
    If a lady is out to extort money from a guy, then there is no love.
    As for me, my “Remio’s” smile keeps me going.

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    February 8, 2015 at 2:09 am

    i strongly agree with point number 1,2,3. Inaddition to the stated attributes I believe a man respected by his family is one thing a woman wants , because when his family (younger and older) doesn’t respect him then the woman wouldn’t be comfortable.

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    Mr Ola from Abuja
    February 8, 2015 at 5:14 am

    what most woman find attractive in men is the level of understanding, ability to accommodate, sense of humor, the fear of God, hygienic, listening, lastly ability to appreciate and that three words I LOVE U!!!!

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    February 8, 2015 at 7:02 am


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    Abdul lateef Idris
    February 8, 2015 at 7:41 am

    women like men DAT are truthfulness, faithfully and men DAT are courageous.

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    February 8, 2015 at 8:02 am

    Believing an accepting all the physical aspects that attracts a woman to man; one most fundamental is the man’s ability in bed; dressing and self presentation.

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    February 8, 2015 at 8:17 am

    A man who put God first and love him. Only then can he love u perfectly!

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    February 8, 2015 at 8:41 am

    A man who never considered common mistakes of his woman….who is caring and ready to respond romantically to his woman whenever she needs him.
    A respective man to the woman and to the family…u should know wah I mean. thanks

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    Anigbo Ngozi
    February 8, 2015 at 8:59 am

    for me.a tall man with positive potentials,hard working toward achieving his goals.

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    February 8, 2015 at 9:16 am

    a luvin carin an God fearin man

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    Racheal Laye Edward
    February 8, 2015 at 10:53 am

    A Guy with money o, lots of it!
    An intelligent guy,
    A guy who dresses well,
    A dependable guy,
    A guy of his words,
    Tall, handsome, romantic guy who loves God

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      February 12, 2015 at 4:09 pm

      Na Robot u dey look 4. or Maybe the man inside Alice in the wonderland story. You better wake up from your slumber.

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    February 8, 2015 at 12:28 pm

    For me i thing luv is like a segarate, it start up with sparkles, later with burns n end up with arshes………. re chain lovers.

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    esythzher tyhnie
    February 8, 2015 at 1:32 pm

    love is all a bout honesty

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    obetta ene stella
    February 8, 2015 at 1:59 pm

    Bedmatic ooooookkkkkkk

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    Surveyor Jeremiah
    February 8, 2015 at 2:14 pm

    most women like truthfull, well dressed men and unselfish, carring MEN

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    February 8, 2015 at 3:15 pm

    In my own view,Personality crowns everything about LOVE.It count on any aspect of LOVE.

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    February 8, 2015 at 4:29 pm

    Woman also like men that will tell dem all the truth they need toknow about,be it in friendship,lover or husband and wife

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    February 8, 2015 at 4:43 pm

    He must be intelligent and honest

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    February 8, 2015 at 5:14 pm

    Nothing but Mooooooneeeeey!

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    Helen martin
    February 8, 2015 at 5:15 pm

    Men have nothing to discuss

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    February 8, 2015 at 6:36 pm

    A God fearing man counts as most important man.

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    February 8, 2015 at 7:40 pm

    A man that love God. Any man that does not lobe can love his wife. Bible says husband love your wife as Christ love his church and gave himself for it. God has commanded a man to love his wife and for a to obey that command he must first has the love of God. So girl pray for your to love God he will in turn love u

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    February 8, 2015 at 11:40 pm

    His personality

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    Solomon Kyambadde
    February 9, 2015 at 7:23 am

    Personality and ideology towards relationship is all wat i mind about not leaving the christian faith

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    Eugenia Amonoo
    February 9, 2015 at 5:42 pm

    A God fearing man hansom n tall who is doing his own work

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    February 10, 2015 at 6:04 pm

    A Man Who Is Working, Love God,and Care For The Welbeing Of Others,who Don’t Drink A Lot,

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    February 10, 2015 at 10:06 pm

    Only ladies are permitted to be short but guys are not. Why?

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    February 12, 2015 at 3:06 am

    Insecurity is a major problem of the world population today and women make a fraction of the total, majority of which are vulnerable physically, acedemically, economically and politically so there is no doubts they need a man who is stronge in these area in respective of color or height . So a guy must be strong, intelligent, rich and of good leadership quality

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    February 26, 2015 at 6:30 pm

    I like a man who can make me laugh even when I don’t feel like it: when I feel like the world is coming down on me, etc.

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