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Do You Believe In Love At First Sight?

Guy meets lady or lady meets guy, and after they exchange some glances, say a few words to each other and maybe a light touch, sparks fly. Yes, I know of that and believe that happens.

But falling in love at first sight? Hmm… Not so sure.

I’ve heard people say they saw a lady’s picture and immediately fell in love with her. Or a lady sights a guy for the first time at an event and falls in love with him before even speaking to him.

It is widely believed that love at first sight is not true love, but infatuation. I’ve never fallen in love at first sight because I believe you have to spend time together over a period of time, that you have to know each other before love comes along. But I’ve learnt a lot from this blog that my opinions might be totally different from yours and I’d really love to know what you feel about this topic.

So, do you believe in love at first sight? Have you ever fallen in love at first sight?

Share your stories!


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    Ebuka chukwu
    February 27, 2015 at 8:59 pm

    Anty good even i did it believe in sight love but if the person can be closer to me then it can work out

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    Racheal Laye Edward
    February 27, 2015 at 9:05 pm

    I do believe in love at first sight although I have not experienced it myself anyway.

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    Deborah chauta
    February 27, 2015 at 9:20 pm

    i once fell in this trap bt the experience was bad…thingz were sweet at first but then true colourz came out…never wil i believe in love at frst sight.

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    Kristian Josephs
    February 27, 2015 at 9:36 pm

    LOVE has nothing to do with one’s physical appearance; however, LUST has everything to do with one’s physical outlook. I am certain there is LUST at first sight but definitely not LOVE at first sight.

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    Alewo Andrew
    February 27, 2015 at 9:47 pm

    Yeah! I believe in love @ first sight, I felt in love with my fiance the first day I set my eyes on her & we have been together since then. Two years has gone by now & we waxing stronger in love every passing moment even though we live some distance away from each other. Love @ first sight really work for those that know the act of using it to their advantage.

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    Ejekwe Nelly Jennifer
    February 27, 2015 at 10:32 pm

    Infactuatiin,like nd love. There s diffnt btween dis three words.u wea attractd with d beauty of someone nd immidietly u wish to see wat is inside of him or ha,dat i tnk is infactuatn. Attractd by persons character nd u liked d person wit no sexual string attach,dat s like.Love s not a common word but we misunderstnd nd ues it wrng.u luv a person,u must b real,try influence him or ha possitively,tnk gud wit no evil tot,tell d truth weda it hurts but wit gud approach,its all for corrctn nd a beta livin etc. We cn like at first sight but cnt luv cus luv is grown but will not if dea s no closeness. So no luv at first sight

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    February 28, 2015 at 2:02 am

    SO THROUGH the eyes love attains the heart: For the eyes are the scouts of the heart, and the eyes go reconnoitering for what it would please the heart to posses. And when they are in full accord and firm, all three in the one resolve at that time, perfect love is born. From what the eyes have made welcome to the heart.By the grace and by command of these three, and from their pleasures , love is born.For as all true lovers know, love is perfect kindness, which is born-there is no doubt-from the heart and eyes.The eyes make it blossom; the heart matures it: Love, which is the fruit of their very Seed. LOOK, OBSERVE, VENTURE then ENTER………

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    Bitrus Linus
    February 28, 2015 at 5:59 am

    Am in it right now

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    Rotibi kayode
    February 28, 2015 at 11:57 am

    Steph, there is love at first sight which i strongly believe it exist. it is expressed when u see someone u really admire. it is so natural and real. it is not an infatuation.

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    February 28, 2015 at 11:59 am

    That is true

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    February 28, 2015 at 1:43 pm

    Its bullshit,I don’t believe in such.

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    February 28, 2015 at 5:45 pm

    I do believe in love @first sight Steph. Av been thr before despite d fact dt it didn’t work out well for us doesn’t mean it don’t exist.

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    March 1, 2015 at 10:25 am

    No one will make me believe that love at first sight does not exist! All other observations we make after first sight are done to give guidelines as to how to get this individual. Breaking up after sometimes does not mean in anyway that love at first sight does not exist. Afterwards, u can observe for someone for yrs and still breakup with him/her. The heart knows where it belongs and it tickles the first time it sees there!

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    usman faith
    March 5, 2015 at 9:42 pm

    Depends on who u re dat love in first sight will work. Is nt really LOVE is LUST.

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    March 7, 2015 at 7:37 pm

    hey love at first sight hmmmm ,is not real don’t mistake infatuation for love

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    March 22, 2015 at 12:47 pm

    love at first sight …i dont belive in it…love happens wen dat relationship has stood d test of time…its can start from friendship,infatuation and even lust into love…love is d ultimate…

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    Nelson uniqueness Nancy
    March 22, 2015 at 4:48 pm

    Love at first sight does NOT exist, if we bring our heads out of d clouds, we’d understand what love is all about, cos i noticed dt love, itself, is very deep & ominous.
    Ladynana #cutechic

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