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What Do Men Find Most Attractive In Women?

There’s a saying that goes thus – ‘One man’s meat is another man’s poison‘.

This applies to a variety of things, including a man’s type of woman. One man might like a slim woman, another might like a plump one. One man might like a dark skinned woman while another might like a light skinned one.

However, there are general traits that men tend to like in women, things that attract them.

I asked a few people and here are the most common answers I heard:

1. A confident woman: A man likes a woman who is sure of her self, who speaks well, raises her head up high and can hold her ground anywhere.

2. A beautiful woman: A man likes to look at pleasant things and a woman with a pleasant face and features is just right for him.

3. A respectful woman: Most men have big egos and they like a woman who can stroke it and not disrespect it. Men in general are attracted to women who have a good level of respect for them.

4. ______________

I want to know what you think. SL Fabz, complete the list. What do men find most attractive in women?

This question is for guys and ladies so let the comments roll in!

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    Joseph Wiseman
    February 3, 2015 at 12:49 pm

    Endurance and strictness

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    February 3, 2015 at 1:10 pm

    an intelligent and problem solving woman who in d midst of changes can come up with ground breaking solution.

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    harrison kimanthi
    February 3, 2015 at 1:21 pm

    I love God fearing,humble and simple girl.She must be beutiful as well.

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    Dayo adesina
    February 3, 2015 at 1:34 pm

    Trust nd honest

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    February 3, 2015 at 1:35 pm

    Men want everything this days. What are they willing and able to the table i.e beauty, brains, *industries* domesticated, sexy yet conservative. Men want us to be what they want when they want it. What happens to your own personality who are you? Most importantly What can they offer?

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    February 3, 2015 at 1:43 pm

    Nice shape, fat butt, succulent breasts, good height, beautiful face, good savings ability,respectful, God fearing and the readiness to accept me for who I am!!!

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      February 3, 2015 at 4:05 pm

      u would have to mould your own clay then *rme*

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      February 4, 2015 at 7:56 am

      I guess u have to be an artist den, so u can design nd create one for yourself…

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    February 3, 2015 at 2:10 pm

    Men love a simple courageous woman who can take care of the home even in their absence.

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    stephanie mukabi
    February 3, 2015 at 2:16 pm

    men love independent women…..self sufficient…..not depandants and pests!
    have your own job,own money,and he will definately be into you.

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    February 3, 2015 at 2:28 pm

    Evelyn has the point

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    foday sadique baio
    February 3, 2015 at 2:56 pm

    The beauty of a woman lies within her.
    Beauty in the eyes we know is deceptive, a woman with a God fearing heart deserve nothing more or less than all the best a man can give.

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    foday sadique baio
    February 3, 2015 at 3:02 pm

    A woman who fears God obeys her husband, respect him, offers him the best of what he needs from her and will always love him no matter what d financial situation may be.

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    February 3, 2015 at 3:55 pm

    inteligent, industrious, goal oriented, she must’nt reali be princess charming but she should be presentable

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    Faithful Obiajuru
    February 3, 2015 at 3:57 pm

    Men love women who r Godfearing,respectful,n a woman who’s a good cook!

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    Kenta Hebron Jime
    February 3, 2015 at 3:59 pm

    Men also like women that are industrious not liabilities

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    February 3, 2015 at 7:47 pm

    Honesty,industrious,respectful,selfconfidence,pretty an sexy aswell

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    February 3, 2015 at 7:49 pm

    Industrious,pretty an sexy aswell

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    jane priski
    February 3, 2015 at 7:54 pm

    Men needs to b loved 4 who dey are nt wat dey are, dey need 2 b highly respected, dey also needs our advice make dem knw ur kind of woman nd nt just a girl.I tell love making is nt all.

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      Bright. O.
      February 4, 2015 at 5:12 am

      I believe men love women who has the above qualities, but they desire more than that. I think men love women who know their PRIDE most especially, women who can add and not always take from them, an industrious, pretty,humble and respectful…

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    February 3, 2015 at 11:04 pm

    a woman with a simple smile and that is understanding

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    February 3, 2015 at 11:13 pm

    Men Lust for beautiful ones No more Love

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    Racheal Laye Edward
    February 4, 2015 at 12:49 am

    Intelligent, Smart, Independent, Passionate women!

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    February 4, 2015 at 6:33 am

    A woman with a vision.

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    marian ifeekam
    February 4, 2015 at 11:02 am

    you can’t be everything a man want, the most important is be yourself and know your self worth,don’t let any man bring you down.

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    usman faith
    February 4, 2015 at 9:55 pm

    men loves to spend they life with a well behave,God’s fearing,beautiful and respective woman.

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    Nkiru Rosemary
    February 5, 2015 at 10:47 pm

    The superb qualities men cherish most in women are: God fearing, industious and above all, faithful women.

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    February 7, 2015 at 1:18 pm

    Beautiful, good shape,slim,plump,tall ,short,educated,illitrate etc all i mention here is zero none of them qaulife to be a good woman.nawadays what man need in a woman is a woman that has purify good heart and ready to stand behind her man no matter the condition.

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    February 8, 2015 at 3:05 am

    In all dis tins it depend on de man in question,they is a saying dat goes one man’s meat is another man’s poison wat u like,want or desire will not be wat another man’s want or desire,de word of God says dat God gift all gud tins nd added no sorrows

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    February 8, 2015 at 3:15 am

    In all dis tins it depend on de man in question, wat u like,want or desire will not be wat another man’s want or desire,de word of God says dat God gift all gud tins nd added no sorrows,wen de right man frm God comes u will fine out dat all dis tins be listed ar not issue

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    Robert Ngwu
    February 9, 2015 at 8:33 am

    The eyes eat before the mouth. Attraction therefore is a function of sight. Other than the fact that Ass-men are attracted to the size/shape of the the ass and Boobs-men are attracted to the size/shape of the boobs, most men are attracted to:

    1. Confidence confidence (had to say it twice) is what men find most attractive in a woman.

    It’s the confidence that says I am special and secure. You are lucky to have me. If you mess up there are host of other men on a reserve bench eagerly waiting for you to mess up so they can take over.

    Similarly, It’s the confidence that says I’m not desperate and can be just fine with/without you.

    It’s the confidence that makes a woman not to throw a fit just because you are chatting with another woman.

    It’s the confidence that makes a woman comfortable with her body, her hair, her shape, and her clothing/accessories.

    It’s the confidence that creates better communication and understanding because she will always say what she means and means what she says.

    Similarly, it’s the confidence that bolden’s her to freely approach the sometimes forbidden subject of sex.

    Finally, it’s the confidence that will make her walk away from the relationship the moment she discovers you are cheating on her or being disrespectful.

    2. Men are attracted to Positive & Pleasant women (P&P): A P&P woman is not only fun to be with but she also believes in your dreams and goals (cheer leader).

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    February 12, 2015 at 8:12 am

    A religious, trustworthy, respectful, obedient, perseverance n beautiful woman. But MOSTLY ‘religious’

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