Please don’t disclose my name, after my last relationship with an Igbo guy that didn’t work out, I’d not been into another relationship for over a year. I met this guy he’s a Yoruba guy from Ondo state…
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MalaikainLove wrote: Good morning Stephanie, I am a lady of a 32 years old and a man of 50 yrs old asked me to marry him but my family doesn’t want him, I really love this man. I don’t…
Hafsat wrote: My name is Hafsat, I am 29 years old. I don’t even know how to start my story. I met this man 2 years back, he proposed to marry me and I agreed; we did the…
Friend of shocked wife writes: “Six years ago, a man (46 yrs old) married a 24 year old girl. Wife stayed back in Naija with the mother-in-law while the processing of her papers to join her husband began. After…
Lisa wrote: Please can you enlighten me, calling your boyfriend to know how he is doing all the time, is it a crime? I met my boyfriend in February and he traveled back to UK in March and we started calling…
Happy Friday! This meaningful post was going round so thought to share with my SL Fabz also. Culled from FB Page – ‘Hit Like If Agreed’ — During a seminar, a woman asked,” How do I know if I am…
Adah wrote: I am going out with this guy and I really love him. I stumbled on his phone and found out he saved his ex-girlfriends name as “my sweetheart”. I confronted him and he doesn’t have a good explanation. What…
BG wrote: Sincere comments on something very urgent that is making someone’s life miserable. It is about dating between a Moslem and Christian – that might subsequently lead to Marriage. SCENARIO – Man is a staunch Moslem and Woman…
Ann wrote: I met a guy through a friend, no he actually saw my pics on a friend’s dp and he liked me, he collected my pin and we started chatting cos he stays far away in Abuja…
Hello SL Fabz, hope your weekend is starting off on a relaxing, stress free note. A lot of ladies write me so I decided to put something out there for the men, and for the ladies to share with…
Ony wrote : Dear Steph, I have been dating a guy for 4 years now, no signs of marriage. Ony. Dear Ony, I understand how this can be frustrating for you. It would have helped if you provided a bit more…
Hello Stephie, There’s something I need to find out: is it right for a woman to make the first move and ask a man out for a love relationship, especially in a society like Nigeria? There’s a man that…
Hello Stephanie, First I want to say how much I love your blog. You are doing something really different here. Well done! I’ll like to share my story: I have been dating this man for a while now, exactly…
Hey people! The last few weeks have been tough due to the Aluu4 issue. That event broke me to pieces, and I am glad some of the perpetrators of the hideous act have been caught. We will get justice…
I have been dating a guy for 4 years. When we met he didn’t have a job, he didn’t have any real focus in life. As a Christian, I gave him hope, I loved him and helped him through those tough…






