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Talk To Steph… Phone ID Stress

Adah wrote:

I am going out with this guy and I really love him. I stumbled on his phone and found out he saved his ex-girlfriends name as “my sweetheart”. I confronted him and he doesn’t have a good explanation. What do you advise I do?

SL Fabz, the platform is open, let’s help Adah out.

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    April 4, 2013 at 3:48 am

    My dear since he did not give good explanation, u better leave him for cos its still fresh now.

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    April 4, 2013 at 3:49 am

    My dear since he did not give good explanation, u better leave him for gud cos its still fresh now.

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    April 4, 2013 at 6:00 am

    Dearest Adap, is time to reclaim the heart of the one u love from his ex. Boys are like babies n will always want that homely n tender loving gal. Reposition urself strategically n Gain his heart, love n Trust from his ex

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    April 4, 2013 at 6:02 am

    Dear Ada,
    D truth of d mata is dat he is still in love wit his ex. My earnest advice for u is to be careful.
    If i may ask, wat is ur name stored as?

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    onyeoziri Nkechi
    April 4, 2013 at 6:09 am

    M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ D̶̲̥̅̊є̲̣̥ά̲̣̣̣̥я̩̥̊ Fø̲̣̣я̅ sure if his Ex ı̣̣̣s̶̲̥̅̊ still his sweetheart then U̶̲̥̅̊’re his bitter heart.Think.

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    Vivian baffour
    April 4, 2013 at 6:39 am

    I need to talk to u pls this is my number.

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    praise Akuleyi
    April 4, 2013 at 7:00 am

    As 4 m̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥
    i̶̲̥̅̊ am done wit d relationship, dat means he stil luv his ex. D nxt tin u hear is dat he as wedded d G̲̣̣̣̥A̶̲̥̅̊ u bata run 4 u̶̲̥̅̊R̶̲̥̅̊ dear life

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    April 4, 2013 at 7:26 am

    leave him

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    April 4, 2013 at 7:56 am

    Probably he didn’t change the way he saved her name frm the time dey were dating,if dey don’t have anything going on between dem now I suggest u tell him to edit how he saved it and continue frm need to sweat the small stuff,I’m sure u are the apple of his eye.

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    April 4, 2013 at 8:19 am

    He is not over his ex yet. Carry out serious investigation to know if the ex is into him. If your discovery is in the affirmative, please move on with your life and find a new man, let that one go back to his vomit!

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    Prince Adeniran
    April 4, 2013 at 9:13 am

    Steph,I need ur fone nos,plz

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    April 4, 2013 at 10:09 am

    Well, to me I did say u dnt hv anything to do, all u hv got to do is to be very sure if they aint dating anymore. Just be very careful nd wise so as for u to knw if he is really serious with ya or not. But my candid advice is its wrong for u to check a man’s fone when he didn’t give u the permission cos u might end up hurting urself.

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    April 4, 2013 at 10:59 am

    Well Adah, I personally think you should just give him the benefit of the doubt and then start observing him closely on how he behaves at the mention of his ex’s name…just be calm and handle him with wisdom. If u don’t have the wisdom to do that, I suggest u ask God for it! Good luck and God bless.

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    Oturu O Rapheal
    April 4, 2013 at 11:17 am

    It pain,but God answer all questions,U are the foundation why the man is a pela to the family.

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    April 4, 2013 at 1:04 pm

    Nothing as bothersome as the ‘EX’ factor.pls dnt delude yourself ,hes prob still hung up on her or they never even broke up.lace up ur sneaks n move on! pls dnt allow him lie-convince u.

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    April 4, 2013 at 7:25 pm

    Gal its nothing, i saved my ex-bf name as baby, we ve bn over for long im yet to change it, evri time i scroll my phone i see it, but i get distracted by work or d internet. Ill change it right If my man had notice i wont be able to give a reasonable explanation too. Babe y re u spying on ur guys contact? besides our exs re nt enemies, pls darling Men luv space. My man still has a photo of his ex, doesnt bother me im too busy to remb., besides he showed me her pix. My advice is be as blunt as possible, tell him ure jealous in a most hilarious way, u guys laff over it, he changes it and u become happy!

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