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Will Love Conquer? … Talk To Steph

BG wrote:

Sincere comments on something very urgent that is  making someone’s life miserable. It is about dating between a Moslem and Christian – that might subsequently lead to Marriage.

SCENARIO – Man is a staunch Moslem and  Woman is a staunch Christian, also a prominent member of a church. 
Man is well established, neat, good looking and is desperately in love with this woman. Woman is also well established…and the man loves everything about her and also her sincerity, kind and loving heart.
Woman was born a Catholic but now goes to one of the Pentecostal churches that she loves.
PROBLEM IS – the woman’s family are adamantly against the relationship. They are not pleased with her leaving the Catholic church and they think she now wants to venture into the Moslem faith. She is willing to convert into the Moslem faith, and the man’s family loves her so much – at least 99.9% of them want to usher her into their faith. Man on the other hand does not want to convert into Christianity, but, bottom line is that they are very much in LOVE with each other, but the woman does not want to go against her family.Now, question is…….what should she do? Is it advisable to enter into such a union? The post she holds in her church might be stripped away from her and she might lose some of her family members. What if eventually, it does not work out…?

SL Fabz, let’s advise this couple …..



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  • Reply
    Esther Ojeaga
    March 27, 2013 at 4:49 am

    Love will c dm thru

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    Attama Lambert F
    March 27, 2013 at 5:56 am

    Tried on my hero.

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    March 27, 2013 at 6:39 am

    To me, a marriage witout d consent of either parents is not advisable. If she is truly a christian den she shld go on her kneels bcos God does nt do His things in ways dat ll bring pain, she shld be sure d guy in question is d will of God 4 her, if he is God’s will 4 her evry oda issue is a piece of cake

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    March 27, 2013 at 6:45 am

    I would suggest dat dey don’t go ahead wit d marriage since venturing into it will creat a whole lot of problems & bsides,if d man truly luvs her, denhe should bcome a christian cos if she bcomes a moslem, wen d luvgoes cold, he would stil leav her & marry another wife. Christianity gives security in marriage!

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    March 27, 2013 at 9:45 am

    As the popular adage goes,”Truth is bitter”…but I’ll still say it never the less! Firstly, the girl failed everything by not first of all inquiring from God whether or not the guy is her husband. Secondly, she’ll be surprised to know that the guy in question does not truly love her because, if she’s willing to make a huge sacrifice as converting to another religion and the guy is not willing to make such sacrifice, yet he claims to truly love her, God forbid bad thing something big comes up in future, will he be willing to make such sacrifice? Human love is so fickle and frail and full of self, that is why christians are encouraged to seek the perfect will of God before venturing into any marriage. So pls sister, first of all, go and seek God’s perfect will of a husband for u. God bless.

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    March 27, 2013 at 10:23 am

    Allow me to use a few lines …”The woman is ready to convert to the man’s faith but the man is not ready to convert to the woman’s faith”.
    Following this assertion, I think she should leave the man for someone else. The man is selfish and love is not selfish. Love is patient, selfless, enduring, tolerant and so on. This is my 50 cents.

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      March 27, 2013 at 8:09 pm

      You are right my dear..

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    March 27, 2013 at 1:16 pm

    For me as a Christian before going into any union, I have to pray about it to see if that is what God’s plan is for my life. So I advise that she should seek God’s face concerning this situation and let Him tell her what to do. But for her to be willing to convert to a Moslem only goes to show that Christianity for her is just a religion. Because if u have a true relationship with God, you will know that Jesus Christ is the only way, there is no other way around it. And she should also put her kids she will have in the future into consideration, if she as a Christian marries a Moslem which way will she teach them that is right?

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    favour ifeoma
    March 27, 2013 at 1:40 pm

    Yes my dear sis love can do all things if the love is pure one it will

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    March 27, 2013 at 2:39 pm

    As a christian, 1st, marrying a moslem is out of it. 2ndly, as odas av said, u are ready to change ur religion but d guy isn’t, he doesn’t love u. She’ll find anoda man dat share d same faith with her and love her

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    stephanie okolie
    March 27, 2013 at 3:48 pm

    Any marriage without perantal consent is heading to distruction,please my dear since your parent are against it don’t try it,plse think about the future, the clock might turn around tomorro, so be wise

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    bose jemilehin
    March 27, 2013 at 4:51 pm

    D lady shd hold on 2 her faith if she really knw wot she believes in, religion shd not be forced on people either by marriage or otherwise. She shd go 2 God in fasting n prayers, and I knw He wil see her tru.

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    March 27, 2013 at 8:07 pm

    What I would like to ask to this lady is, does she really understand what Christianity means? I want to let her know dat she being a Christian is nt because she goes to church but because of a life she has received from Christ Jesus. If she believe in the life christ gave her, her believe should be her driving force..if her fiance or boyfriend do not believe what she believe, honestly, I don’t know how peaceful their union could be…let her remember, dat the lifestyle of a christian is different from that of the moslem. I advice her to look into her life and find out if she really have the life of christ as a christian then she will check if she could trade what she has for something else…thank you.

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    charity Akwente
    March 28, 2013 at 9:08 am

    What business has light got with darkness,pls sister I have a living witness of the end result of such union it will never end well. God is not a liar n can never forsake his own go to God in prayers n ask for his will concerning ur life n follow it love is never blind love open ur eyes to see the danger ahead,don’t turn ur back on ur creator bicos of a man cos when the chips are down who will you run to?

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    March 28, 2013 at 11:20 pm

    For this relationship to be successful, one has to give up something. Question is: is she a born again believer? as the story goes, she’s now attending an evangelical church. If she is, then the relationship and love is strictly forbidden. Two cannot walk together except they both agree on the same thing. The good thing about LOVE, it never ends. So if she is born again, she definitely will be brought to someone in her faith who has the same mind as her.

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    April 3, 2013 at 6:33 am

    You have to listen to your parents, you are heading to destruction my dear this is not a matter of prayer is simple wisdom to apply. according to your faith, haven’t you heard there is no Relationship btw darkness and that man is not your Husband . wait patiently in that your church God will give you the Best husband but the enemy has seen what God holds for you, now he is showing fake items that will lead you no were run for your Life..please

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