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10 Things Men Notice First About Women

Have you ever wondered why it seems easy for some ladies to capture the attention of men more then others? Many times as ladies, we think its just our looks that gives a good first impression on the opposite sex. Wrong!

Ladies, its time to educate ourselves a bit. Here are 10 things a guy notices first when he sees a lady:

1. Your Smile: A lady’s smile is often the very first part of a woman a guy will see. A lady with a scowl on her face is not often attractive to most men while a smiling woman is considered to be much more approachable. Your smile is one of the most expressive feature you possess.

2. Your Hair: You’d be surprised how much men pay attention to this. And surprisingly, most women get it wrong about the kind of hair that men are attracted to. I know a man who tells me a woman who plaits her hair or has it in braids is the only kind of woman he gets attracted to. For others, it might be different.

3. Your Eyes: A woman’s eyes tell a lot about her. Any confident guy would want to hold your gaze for a while. A lot of information can be shared through eye contact. Remember, ‘eyes are the window to the soul‘.

4. Your Body Language: Do you walk tall and confident? Are you slouched? Do you have an upright posture? Yes, guys do notice all these and it tells them whether to approach you or not.

5. Your Sense Of Humour: A guy would be very keen about you if he notices he can make you laugh. But he will even be more interested if you can make him laugh.

6. Your Body: Believe me ladies, this is actually one of the first things they notice! Most men have basic specs of body types they like. Big, small, curvy, straight…. When you stand in full view of a guy, believe me, this is one important thing he is checking out.

7. Your Friends: It is very likely that you’d share some traits with the kind of friends you keep. Guys know this, and so will judge you by these traits your friends possess. As the saying goes ‘Show me your friend and I will tell you who you are‘. If you have loud, rude friends, a guy might just assume this is the kind of person you are at first impression, even if you are not.

8. Your Smell: Oh yes ladies, don’t ever forget this! Your smell introduces you, and lingers after you are gone. The question is what kind of impression do you want to give with your smell? Good or bad.

9. Your Style: Do you have a great body but dressed in shabby clothes? Are you wearing the right kind of clothes and shoes for your body type? Are your clothes stylish or just plain? A guy notices these things at first glance.

10. Your Attitude: One of the most important non-physical things a guy notices about you is your attitude. No matter how beautiful or attractive a lady looks, a mean attitude can send a guy running faster than you think. I know sometimes you might be having a bad day, but try to be nice to people you are meeting for the first time. You never know who he might really be.

SL Fabz, do you have anything to add to this list?

Ladies, what would you say is your strongest point? What do guys notice first about you?

Guys, what are some of the first things you notice in a lady?

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    March 12, 2015 at 4:17 pm

    My smile is the point…It works greatly for me & has attracted so many good people to me

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    Mojisola Obazuaye
    March 12, 2015 at 4:27 pm

    Very well said. Women should always pay attention to what clothes work for the body, how well they wear the clothes and not how costly the clothes are.

    Love all the points you mentioned.

    Cheers, Mojisola

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    Ekpe Doris
    March 12, 2015 at 4:53 pm

    How do u no dat a guy luv u?

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    Ayeni Segun
    March 12, 2015 at 5:48 pm

    Everything you talked about is so on point. For me my smile, ability to make him laugh n when i carry my natural hair.

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    Cuteks Kare Siantebe
    March 12, 2015 at 6:27 pm

    nice points…

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    Mavin Bakarr
    March 12, 2015 at 8:34 pm

    Am a guy, bt all ur points are facts mwaaah

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    anthony nwankwo
    March 12, 2015 at 8:38 pm

    evely thing u say is truth.

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    March 12, 2015 at 9:49 pm

    My attitude,am so nice to people cos I want then to be nice to me too

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    March 12, 2015 at 10:33 pm

    Hmmm interesting, very educative and strong points, they all work for me but my strongest points are my hair especially natural + smile and body.
    *SKIN* Is what I’ll like to add to this article because SKIN speaks volume, it’s one of the first things you see in a person, so we should take good care of our skin by using the suitable products and eating healthy.
    Thank you Stephanie

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    Joy Ikechukwu
    March 13, 2015 at 12:17 am

    wow…really i tink my smile attracts lot of .pple my way..cos i really love smiling nd i mak sure a day dnt pass me by if i dnt mak sumone out dere to smile as well….i love dis tip@stephans

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    March 13, 2015 at 5:06 am

    Thak u dear all the above mentioned r collect,,also most guys notices the length of a woman’s nails mostly on fingers those who mind alot about hygiene,even the colours u paint,me I was only left to paint light pink and natural bse of him

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    Racheal Laye Edward
    March 13, 2015 at 5:56 am

    U said it all

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    March 13, 2015 at 10:28 am

    All ur points r correct.

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    March 13, 2015 at 10:45 am

    well…nyc one but wat can I do since I hardly smile…

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    sumayah nansikombi
    March 13, 2015 at 10:45 am

    yeah all points are being mentioned but all in all is the smile and clothes that works on your body stay bless sumayah love u all

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    March 14, 2015 at 1:03 pm

    Wow… Thnks for calling my attention to this list.. welldone Steph…

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    March 14, 2015 at 4:10 pm

    u said it all . really smille has a lot to do in life,and our attitude . infact, d way one dress matters…….hm pls age is noting o. some of my friends are no more dressing fine so that a man will see them as a wife material, hm…is it when i kept my qaulity clothes and enter maket for OK(okrika) is d man will coose them? main that is gosh!

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    March 16, 2015 at 11:35 am

    Everything listed above is what attracts me to people and i thank God for endowing me with such gifts

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    March 21, 2015 at 5:21 am

    my body and my smile are points that work

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    May 3, 2015 at 6:02 am

    my smile has done a lot for me

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