- Number 1 – SEXY LINGERIE: nothing screams the triple S {Sophisticated, Sexy and Strong} like a couple of ‘Victoria Secret’ items in your closet. When you are both getting ready to go to work, grab his attention by wearing an innocent white lacy lingerie, ladies do not forget to wear your heels, they give you some kind of elegance. Pretend to have trouble finding what to wear and make a 360 degree turn in the bedroom pretending to look for something, strike a balance between seduction and innocence and just about when he starts getting fussy (because as we all know, as much as men like to form macho, they are still “our babies”, you make a quick decision on what to wear and slip into a high waist,’pinch me in pencil skirt’ that hugs your curves. Give him an excuse about being late for work, even make him zip up the skirt, plant a wet kiss on his lips and let his hands play over your body for a few seconds, give him hope, then withdraw and promise him a nice time after work, wicked right? *winks* you could even send him a couple of flirty emails at work, I promise you, he’ll be the first to leave the office. “Naughty, naughty” 😀
- Your underwear shows the kind of woman you are, ill-fitting, unattractive undies says lazy, boring, primitive and old lady coming through while a fitted, clean and lacy, frilly underwear say sexy, sophisticated and confident. So now back to Mr. Macho waiting for some action when he comes back from work, make him wait for it, men like to be teased, so give him what he wants.
Like we all know, one of the most effective ways to impress your man is to be a goddess in the bedroom, so spice things up in there, don’t stick to the routine of just kissing and making love while you are on the bed, instead let him wait on the bed for you while you pamper yourself in the bathroom, moisturize your skin, put on some makeup, wear a lacy or satin lingerie that screams daring senora, pair it with your pantyhose, choose see-through stockings with a lace at the hem to go with your perfect stripper heels, stand at the door and give him the looks that says “I dare you” believe me when I say he will be happy to oblige you, taking the cloths off is even more fun, the more the layers, the more he can’t wait.
Number 2 – ACCESSORIZE: Men love it when their woman is admired by other men. It gives them joy and pride; that sense of belonging that she’s theirs. On a night out, maybe to an office dinner with his colleagues, opt for a striking necklace to rev up that little black dress, you can really affirm your fashion status by wearing more than one. Let him wear your necklace for you. Give him two options on what you’d like to wear and ask him for his opinion on which one to choose, it will make him feel like you are doing it all for him. So when you walk into that hall on his arm, looking gorgeous and everything, people are staring, there will be that confident smile on his lips that says “she’s mine”
Long and short, don’t shy away from accessories even hair accessories too, cute fascinators, flat feather hair bands that lie close to your scalp or even simple kirby grips at the temples. Now is a great time to style your hair, choose a romantic brooch to give a simple cardigan, a new lease of life, a luxe bracelet is a stunning addition if you are looking to dress up an outfit. Add a vintage ring to the opposite hand right next to the sparkling ring he gave you.
Number 3 – DRESS FOR YOUR FIGURE : This is the most important part, dress to suit the occasion, many married women believe since they are married, they have to dress like it and to them that means wearing iro and buba and flowing kaftans but sincerely we are not being fair to the guys this way, he fell in love with the girl that wears playful beach dresses and looks like a million bucks when she goes to the office in her fitted trousers suit so who is this wifezillla??!! LOL
So ladies! When you are at home, wear those t-shirts that say funny things like “Little Miss Chatterbox”, “I love my husband cos he’s so cool” etc. It makes you seem young and fresh, pair them with shorts that shows off your legs, reminding him you are still that girl he met ten years ago or you could go all bad, as soon as the children walk out the door on their way to your parents or a friends, wear a mini dress, floral or plain chiffon; please forget to wear any underwear and sit on his laps as he watches TV. Now which man will be able to resist that? Tell me..
Stay tuned for the final part 3!
xoxo
SL
49 Comments
Anyanwu juliet
June 20, 2013 at 4:32 amThis is cooooooooooooooool. I love it
figaro
June 20, 2013 at 4:44 amU ga da logic keep it up
mojirayo
June 20, 2013 at 4:45 amSo interesting,educative and sexy. I love it.thks stephine ur the best
wunmi
June 20, 2013 at 4:50 amHmmmm, Naughtie! Naughtie!
Esther
June 20, 2013 at 5:03 amAm not married but I luv this .I can wait to read d part 3
zee
June 20, 2013 at 5:05 amDis is so so interesting nd steph makes us 2 knw dat being married doesn’t mean being borring or unsexy
Tina
June 20, 2013 at 5:06 amSL…dis is wicked but me likey….
tracy
June 20, 2013 at 5:25 amLove ur write ups steph. Keep it up.
joy uba
June 20, 2013 at 6:10 amDear luv I must confess u r a great lady,I like ur expiration because many lady dnt know dis expecially d marryed ones,they thought s all abt cooking food 2 their husband and taking care of d children.No lady need 2 look good 2 their husband or spouse so that they will nt look outside, like they said men move by what they see .
Esther A.
June 20, 2013 at 6:17 amWoooooow,this is awesome…Tho I do all of dis,but I gat2 put more swag into with all dis spices Steph gat up there.Now tell me,how he won’t wanna be rushn home all d time.Kudos,My lady….
Helen Isaac
June 20, 2013 at 9:01 amI really appreciate you, keep it up!!! Please don’t forget to add weight loss strategies.
Candy Rex
June 20, 2013 at 9:05 amI love you Steph, U r just d best.
These are Tips that make things happen. and yes, my hubby can’t even resist that. …#now am thinking d best tin to wear#
joy
June 20, 2013 at 9:22 amI wanna know more about fashion and makeup to b abel to keep my man to my self alone
prisca nnadison
June 20, 2013 at 10:11 amI get sad cos I can’t even afford all dis.I lov bin fashionable n enticin bt. ♓øw can I deal wit dis wit jst 5k as savings.bt 4 all dat can afford it all sister is sayn is true pls make do.tnx
LIZZY
June 20, 2013 at 10:24 amhmmmmmmm…………………loaded
debo joy
June 20, 2013 at 10:28 amSteph dat was wicked really! Buh tnx for ur inspiration. It makes me feel dat I can keep him all to myself with all dis fabulous tips. Gudmornin. Lol
Ugochi
June 20, 2013 at 10:49 amOh my God! This is gud n s..e..x….y.i love that,keep it up.
precious
June 20, 2013 at 11:01 amSo interesting, I hav leant some tips here.all thanks to you dear steph. Can’t wait for part 3
celine chukwu
June 20, 2013 at 11:08 amI am highly honoured to learn from your article.
FRANCIS GRACE
June 20, 2013 at 12:43 pmOk, dis is TEMPTING!!! for some of us dat are not married yet. even thou we wanna try it all wit our guy now, it will b like we’re giving him ALL THE HONEY!!! b4 he gets to THE MOON!!!
And apart from keeping my man, i really love to look gorgeous all time, but no plenty money yet.
All dsame, tanks Steph. Love frm Me 2 U
taiwo olumide
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Thanks
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ebony
June 20, 2013 at 2:32 pmSteph uve killed Him Oº°˚˚°ºh. Good digs tho
megan
June 20, 2013 at 3:23 pmchoi!!! stephanie! love this, will try it, part three loading, dancing azonto!
ortegah
June 20, 2013 at 4:22 pmstephanie, your husband dey enjoy o, i wish my wife would do half of this, omo i go die there o
princess onah
June 20, 2013 at 4:25 pmstephanie has started o, i will do the lingerie this night, i really appreciate your advice, keep making us proud joor, muah
joseph
June 20, 2013 at 4:27 pmwifey! start learning o, steph thanks
hannah
June 20, 2013 at 4:32 pmi love this writeup, good thing you have a blog so you can express your many talents, keep it up love
Herrietta
June 20, 2013 at 4:41 pmits really wonderful, Steph May God bless u 4 dis. love u Steph.
sefunmi adams
June 20, 2013 at 4:53 pmstephanie, you are sooooo bad!!!! mind you, this is m y first time commenting here, been checking your updates lately, really cool
tslow
June 20, 2013 at 4:55 pmbad girl steph, nice, now i wish i cud marry a girl like you.
tsetsemi
June 20, 2013 at 5:06 pmhmmmm! hubby! ready or not, here i come
mz jay
June 20, 2013 at 5:15 pmloves it
pearlie
June 20, 2013 at 5:20 pmjesus! naughty! but me i neva marry o, but i will try it with my boyfriend
Geey
June 21, 2013 at 3:42 pmGO and MARRY!!the Bible (God’s word) says: “Flee from Fornication”
Kelly
June 20, 2013 at 6:07 pmThat is really cool, to d ladies, ya’ll gotta abide by d rules n advice stated here……peace step
fashina tunde
June 20, 2013 at 6:24 pmsteph! steph! nice one
ini
June 20, 2013 at 7:53 pmbabe, this is easier said than done o, buh i go try, nice tips by the way
Abiri Ufuoma
June 20, 2013 at 11:21 pmLvly 1 i mst say.thks.dese r d tins we shld learn n practice bcos most men kant km out n tel dir wives.nyc 1.kip it goin
akin
June 21, 2013 at 9:36 ami love this steph, kudos
kemisola adu
June 21, 2013 at 9:49 amtrue talk my sister, i used to do this before i married my husband and he was always looking forward to it . 2 kids later, there never seems to be the perfect time, its making us feel like roommate, need to buckle up, thank you steph
jane
June 21, 2013 at 2:55 pmmy dear my husband hardly let me rest as in he hardly gives me rest now talk of if l do all dis.gud of u step
chidinma
June 21, 2013 at 8:31 pmthanks steph…..keep it up
badooo
June 21, 2013 at 10:18 pmhmmmmm! this is fantastic, my girlfriend has to read this
Uche ogbonna
June 25, 2013 at 12:09 amThis is real teaching and a secret to keeping your man. Thanks for preparing me on time.
Uche ogbonna
June 25, 2013 at 12:20 amThis is a real truth to keeping your man. No matter how it sounds the truth must be told. There’ comes atime in everyone’s life when he/she has to face the truth no matter what
Beatrice Gussie
June 25, 2013 at 9:42 pmYou are a legend, I was inspired by this xxx God bless can’t wait to hear more
Beatrice Gussie
June 25, 2013 at 9:47 pmHoping to learn how to be closer to your love one far from you