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  • Number 1 – SEXY LINGERIE: nothing screams the triple S {Sophisticated, Sexy and Strong} like a couple of ‘Victoria Secret’ items in your closet.  When you are both getting ready to go to work, grab his attention by wearing an innocent white lacy lingerie, ladies do not forget to wear your heels, they give you some kind of elegance. Pretend to have trouble finding what to wear and make a 360 degree turn in the bedroom pretending to look for something, strike a balance between seduction and innocence and just about when he starts getting fussy (because as we all know, as much as men like to form macho, they are still “our babies”, you make a quick decision on what to wear and slip into a high waist,’pinch me in pencil skirt’ that hugs your curves.  Give him an excuse about being late for work, even make him zip up the skirt, plant a wet kiss on his lips and let his hands play over your body for a few seconds, give him hope, then withdraw and promise him a nice time after work, wicked right? *winks* you could even send him a couple of flirty emails at work, I promise you, he’ll be the first to leave the office. “Naughty, naughty” 😀
  • Your underwear shows the kind of woman you are, ill-fitting, unattractive undies says lazy, boring, primitive and old lady coming through while a fitted, clean and lacy, frilly underwear say sexy, sophisticated and confident. So now back to Mr. Macho waiting for some action when he comes back from work, make him wait for it, men like to be teased, so give him what he wants.

Like we all know, one of the most effective ways to impress your man is to be a goddess in the  bedroom, so spice things up in there, don’t stick to the routine of just kissing and making love while you are on the bed, instead let him wait on the bed for you while you pamper yourself in the bathroom, moisturize your skin, put on some makeup, wear a lacy or satin lingerie that screams daring senora, pair it with your pantyhose, choose see-through stockings with a lace at the hem to go with your perfect stripper heels, stand at the door and give him the looks that says “I dare you” believe me when I say he will be happy to oblige you, taking the cloths off is even more fun, the more the layers, the more he can’t wait.

Number 2 – ACCESSORIZE:  Men love it when their woman is admired by other men. It gives them joy and pride; that sense of belonging that she’s theirs. On a night out, maybe to an office dinner with his colleagues, opt for a striking necklace to rev up that little black dress, you can really affirm your fashion status by wearing more than one. Let him wear your necklace for you. Give him two options on what you’d like to wear and ask him for his opinion on which one to choose, it will make him feel like you are doing it all for him. So when you walk into that hall on his arm, looking gorgeous and everything, people are staring, there will be that confident smile on his lips that says “she’s mine”

Long and short, don’t shy away from accessories even hair accessories too, cute fascinators, flat feather hair bands that lie close to your scalp or even simple kirby grips at the temples. Now is a great time to style your hair, choose a romantic brooch to give a simple cardigan, a new lease of life, a luxe bracelet is a stunning addition if you are looking to dress up an outfit. Add a vintage ring to the opposite hand right next to the sparkling ring he gave you.

Number 3 –  DRESS FOR YOUR FIGURE : This is the most important part, dress to suit the occasion, many married women believe since they are married, they have to dress like it and to them that means wearing iro and buba and flowing kaftans but sincerely we are not being  fair to the guys this way, he fell in love with the girl that wears playful beach dresses and looks like a million bucks when she goes to the office in her fitted trousers suit so who is this wifezillla??!! LOL

So ladies! When you are at home, wear those t-shirts that say funny things like “Little Miss Chatterbox”,  “I love my husband cos he’s so cool” etc. It makes you seem young and fresh, pair them with shorts that shows off your legs, reminding him you are still that girl he met ten years ago or you could go all bad, as soon as the children walk out the door on their way to your parents or a friends, wear a mini dress, floral or plain chiffon; please forget to wear any underwear and sit on his laps as he watches TV. Now which man will be able to resist that? Tell me..

Stay tuned for the final part 3!



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  • Reply
    Anyanwu juliet
    June 20, 2013 at 4:32 am

    This is cooooooooooooooool. I love it

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    June 20, 2013 at 4:44 am

    U ga da logic keep it up

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    June 20, 2013 at 4:45 am

    So interesting,educative and sexy. I love it.thks stephine ur the best

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    June 20, 2013 at 4:50 am

    Hmmmm, Naughtie! Naughtie!

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    June 20, 2013 at 5:03 am

    Am not married but I luv this .I can wait to read d part 3

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    June 20, 2013 at 5:05 am

    Dis is so so interesting nd steph makes us 2 knw dat being married doesn’t mean being borring or unsexy

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    June 20, 2013 at 5:06 am

    SL…dis is wicked but me likey….

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    June 20, 2013 at 5:25 am

    Love ur write ups steph. Keep it up.

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    joy uba
    June 20, 2013 at 6:10 am

    Dear luv I must confess u r a great lady,I like ur expiration because many lady dnt know dis expecially d marryed ones,they thought s all abt cooking food 2 their husband and taking care of d children.No lady need 2 look good 2 their husband or spouse so that they will nt look outside, like they said men move by what they see .

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    Esther A.
    June 20, 2013 at 6:17 am

    Woooooow,this is awesome…Tho I do all of dis,but I gat2 put more swag into with all dis spices Steph gat up there.Now tell me,how he won’t wanna be rushn home all d time.Kudos,My lady….

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    Helen Isaac
    June 20, 2013 at 9:01 am

    I really appreciate you, keep it up!!! Please don’t forget to add weight loss strategies.

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    Candy Rex
    June 20, 2013 at 9:05 am

    I love you Steph, U r just d best.
    These are Tips that make things happen. and yes, my hubby can’t even resist that. …#now am thinking d best tin to wear#

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    June 20, 2013 at 9:22 am

    I wanna know more about fashion and makeup to b abel to keep my man to my self alone

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    prisca nnadison
    June 20, 2013 at 10:11 am

    I get sad cos I can’t even afford all dis.I lov bin fashionable n enticin bt. ♓øw can I deal wit dis wit jst 5k as 4 all dat can afford it all sister is sayn is true pls make do.tnx

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    debo joy
    June 20, 2013 at 10:28 am

    Steph dat was wicked really! Buh tnx for ur inspiration. It makes me feel dat I can keep him all to myself with all dis fabulous tips. Gudmornin. Lol

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    June 20, 2013 at 10:49 am

    Oh my God! This is gud n s..e..x….y.i love that,keep it up.

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    June 20, 2013 at 11:01 am

    So interesting, I hav leant some tips here.all thanks to you dear steph. Can’t wait for part 3

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    celine chukwu
    June 20, 2013 at 11:08 am

    I am highly honoured to learn from your article.

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    June 20, 2013 at 12:43 pm

    Ok, dis is TEMPTING!!! for some of us dat are not married yet. even thou we wanna try it all wit our guy now, it will b like we’re giving him ALL THE HONEY!!! b4 he gets to THE MOON!!!
    And apart from keeping my man, i really love to look gorgeous all time, but no plenty money yet.
    All dsame, tanks Steph. Love frm Me 2 U

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    taiwo olumide
    June 20, 2013 at 1:05 pm

    Steph pls wat can i use 4 my stretch marks pls help me out

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      June 21, 2013 at 3:44 pm

      cocoa butter helps a lot…use it religiously

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        June 24, 2013 at 4:40 pm

        try Nutrient glow oil and polisher
        call 08083257308 they wl help you

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    June 20, 2013 at 2:32 pm

    Steph uve killed Him Oº°˚˚°ºh. Good digs tho

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    June 20, 2013 at 3:23 pm

    choi!!! stephanie! love this, will try it, part three loading, dancing azonto!

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    June 20, 2013 at 4:22 pm

    stephanie, your husband dey enjoy o, i wish my wife would do half of this, omo i go die there o

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    princess onah
    June 20, 2013 at 4:25 pm

    stephanie has started o, i will do the lingerie this night, i really appreciate your advice, keep making us proud joor, muah

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    June 20, 2013 at 4:27 pm

    wifey! start learning o, steph thanks

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    June 20, 2013 at 4:32 pm

    i love this writeup, good thing you have a blog so you can express your many talents, keep it up love

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    June 20, 2013 at 4:41 pm

    its really wonderful, Steph May God bless u 4 dis. love u Steph.

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    sefunmi adams
    June 20, 2013 at 4:53 pm

    stephanie, you are sooooo bad!!!! mind you, this is m y first time commenting here, been checking your updates lately, really cool

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    June 20, 2013 at 4:55 pm

    bad girl steph, nice, now i wish i cud marry a girl like you.

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    June 20, 2013 at 5:06 pm

    hmmmm! hubby! ready or not, here i come

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    mz jay
    June 20, 2013 at 5:15 pm

    loves it

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    June 20, 2013 at 5:20 pm

    jesus! naughty! but me i neva marry o, but i will try it with my boyfriend

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      June 21, 2013 at 3:42 pm

      GO and MARRY!!the Bible (God’s word) says: “Flee from Fornication”

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    June 20, 2013 at 6:07 pm

    That is really cool, to d ladies, ya’ll gotta abide by d rules n advice stated here……peace step

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    fashina tunde
    June 20, 2013 at 6:24 pm

    steph! steph! nice one

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    June 20, 2013 at 7:53 pm

    babe, this is easier said than done o, buh i go try, nice tips by the way

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    Abiri Ufuoma
    June 20, 2013 at 11:21 pm

    Lvly 1 i mst say.thks.dese r d tins we shld learn n practice bcos most men kant km out n tel dir 1.kip it goin

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    June 21, 2013 at 9:36 am

    i love this steph, kudos

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    kemisola adu
    June 21, 2013 at 9:49 am

    true talk my sister, i used to do this before i married my husband and he was always looking forward to it . 2 kids later, there never seems to be the perfect time, its making us feel like roommate, need to buckle up, thank you steph

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    June 21, 2013 at 2:55 pm

    my dear my husband hardly let me rest as in he hardly gives me rest now talk of if l do all dis.gud of u step

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    June 21, 2013 at 8:31 pm

    thanks steph…..keep it up

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    June 21, 2013 at 10:18 pm

    hmmmmm! this is fantastic, my girlfriend has to read this

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    Uche ogbonna
    June 25, 2013 at 12:09 am

    This is real teaching and a secret to keeping your man. Thanks for preparing me on time.

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    Uche ogbonna
    June 25, 2013 at 12:20 am

    This is a real truth to keeping your man. No matter how it sounds the truth must be told. There’ comes atime in everyone’s life when he/she has to face the truth no matter what

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    Beatrice Gussie
    June 25, 2013 at 9:42 pm

    You are a legend, I was inspired by this xxx God bless can’t wait to hear more

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    Beatrice Gussie
    June 25, 2013 at 9:47 pm

    Hoping to learn how to be closer to your love one far from you

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