How To Know If A Guy Is Just Not Into You

Hi Sl Fabz,

So this post was inspired by the quote below. I couldn’t help laughing hard when I read it. I have been in that situation and I know a lot of ladies here can attest to this too. It seems like you’re the only one in the relationship or the only one trying to make it work while the other person acts like he just doesn’t care.

These are a few thing to watch out for to know if a guy is really into you:

No Texting/Calling
If he returns your calls and text messages days after you reach out and ignores the fact that he’s been distant, something’s up. A person interested in you wants to build the relationship and communication is a major part of that.

Daylight Outings
Does he take you out in the day time? Have you two even seen the light of day together? Gone out in public? Are your outings always at night? If all you two do is chill at the crib, you may have already lost. Tell him you want to spend the day with him outdoors and see his reaction.

Cancelled Plans
He plans a date with you days before and cancels just hours before it starts. A guy who likes you won’t cancel and if he does, he’ll immediately make it up to you because he doesn’t want you to leave.

No Personal Interest
If a guy shows no interest or excitement over finding out who you are, it’s not a good sign. When we like someone, we can’t get enough. We want to know every story, every detail. If a guy shows no interest in your life, your hobbies, what you enjoy, etc., he’s really just not all that interested in you.

Serial Flirt

A guy who flirts with everybody isn’t shy, he’s going to go after what he wants. So if you’re hoping that he’s interested in you because he’s flirting with you, but he’s not making a move and he flirts with lots of other people, it’s a sign he’s not into you.

Have you been in this situation before? How do you know if a guy/lady is just not into you? Please share!

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    Oni Monisola
    December 2, 2017 at 6:58 am

    Pls am presently in d situation now pls there any way out or what next to do

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    Elizabeth Embu
    December 2, 2017 at 1:08 pm

    If he’s not interested in you, he’ll deny his existence, never will he show you his family and when he wants to feel like a man, he’ll organize his so-called uncle’s or cousin’s crib.. Ladies, we should be smart.

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