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Monday Musings: How I cope with stress

The past few weeks have been a whirlwind of work, meetings, presentations, targets and more. While I’m very thankful to God for the opportunities that have come my way, it can sometimes get so overwhelming.

Everyone experiences stress at times. Research has shown that short term stress can be beneficial by helping us develop skills to cope with threatening situations. However, when stress is severe enough to overwhelm a person’s ability to take care of themselves and family, the benefits diminish. Don’t forget that the bills won’t stop coming, there will never be more hours in the day, and your work and family responsibilities will always be demanding.

Here are some of the lessons I’ve learnt in managing stress lately. Feel free to add yours in the comments section below.

1. Express your gratitude
I can’t go a day without saying how thankful I am to God. Just the simple act of counting your blessings is very relaxing and makes you smile even when you think things are bleak. You could also write down your feelings of gratitude daily in a journal, or send little notes to friends or family letting them know how much you appreciate them.

2. Avoid Drugs, Caffeine & Alcohol
Drugs and alcohol may seem to help with the stress. In the long run, they create additional problems and increase the stress you are already feeling. Avoid, or at least reduce, your consumption of nicotine and any drinks containing caffeine and alcohol. Caffeine and nicotine are stimulants and so will increase your level of stress rather than reduce it.

3. Talk to Someone
Just talking to someone about how you feel can be helpful. Talking can work by either distracting you from your stressful thoughts or releasing some of the built-up tension by discussing it. For me, talking to my husband always does the trick. There is nothing more calming to your nervous system than communicating with another human being who makes you feel safe and understood.

4. Find distractions
During long periods of working, distractions are crucial. I always find relief from stress when I’m with my ever smiling son.

5. Take a break
Give yourself a break if you feel stressed out. Do something you enjoy every day. Make time for leisure activities that bring you joy, whether it be music, playing a game, or watching a movie.

I’d love to hear from you. What do you do to relieve stress when you feel stressed out?

Have a lovely Monday!

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  • Reply
    jonah bulus
    August 29, 2016 at 1:10 pm

    I Tray 2 forgt everything and believed its all well,u see it was not worth feelling what stress fleeting joy life brings.

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    Racheal Laye Edward
    September 3, 2016 at 11:30 pm

    I listen to music, bake or prepare a meal.

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