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Would You Marry A Single Mother?

Would you marry a single mother

When most people think of marriage in our society, it is often between a man and a woman who haven’t had any children from past relationships. Not that there is anything wrong with it, of course not, but I can’t help but think about some other members of the society who are often segregated when it comes to the topic of marriage.

I mean single parents.

For different reasons, men and women have children out of wedlock and marriage often becomes a problem especially when they are separated from the father or mother of their child.

Let’s discuss this today. As a man, will you marry a single mother? And as a woman, would you marry a single father or a man who has a child or children from a previous relationship?

Please give reasons for your answer.



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    February 12, 2014 at 8:21 am

    There is nothing bad marrying a single mother or a single father if there is between two parties.

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    February 12, 2014 at 8:33 am

    This is my fifth year of happy loving marriage to my hubby n we’r blessed with 4 kids the first happens to bé my kid as a spinster, my hubby has always loveD him as his own and his family shows him so much love maybe i got lucky or i married the right man,but i’m indeed blessed. Having a kid out of wedlock dosent make one a bad person or a failure to d society. If i were in my hubby’s shoes, yes i would marry a partner that i love and connect with even if there’s been a child. Thanks

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      March 12, 2014 at 11:10 am

      easier for the guys but it may have been a different case for you if u married him (him having kids already) ..this does not happen in all situations but baby mama drama isnt really exciting and u know how we women never really support each other so it will either be his new wife trying to eliminate the baby mama or baby mama low key seeking to devour wife..crazy things like that…and im 22 i dont understand how and why id need that burden this early in my life..not like im looking to marry tmoro anyway but I wouldnt mind marrying a man who already has a chld but he just has to sort things out with that child’s mother

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    oyesiji gbenga
    February 12, 2014 at 8:58 am

    Most people have things they wish they did not have or bagained for. But, love is love and we should not try to fight it. If I rilly care for her,I’ll over look everything and be with her. To be happy is far more important than anything else and if she provided me with that,I’LL GO FOR IT! Good luck.. Eventually I might even end up loving the kid as if it was my own because of her

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    February 12, 2014 at 9:43 am

    Yes I will marry her if I have found love n peace with her. D most important thing is am comfortable with her n she has a good charter.cause there are millions of ladies who have done abortion so what are we talking about? She having a kid doesn’t make her less of a woman.

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    February 12, 2014 at 9:49 am

    Everybody makes mistake some are corrected early in life why some are regret of the past. So if I see a single guy who intends to move away from the past nd is sensible nd loveable nd moreso honest I would marry him.

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    February 12, 2014 at 9:54 am

    I will marry a single parent if am in love with him. There is no link really between him as a person whom I love and his offspring. If I love him I should love the child for the sake of the love we share.

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    Racheal Laye Edward
    February 12, 2014 at 1:00 pm

    A guy with Kids? A child? Children? HELL NO. No particular reason… Its jst not my thing. I love kids but a man with kids is a NO for me. I know everyone has baggage but that’s just me being real about what baggage I can handle.

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    wiebe meetsma
    February 12, 2014 at 2:54 pm

    nothing wrong to mary a single woman iam looking for a woman

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    February 12, 2014 at 3:51 pm

    There is nothing wrong marrying a single parents. People always make mistakes. Children are not mistake. They didn’t bargain for this. So if I love the person,I don’t have a problem. Single parents should take good care of these children. They are always the best and on top of our society. God is their guard that’s you didn’t think of abortion. Thanks

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    Jeremiah Tarilado
    February 12, 2014 at 4:00 pm

    If she makes me happy and I love her and we are good together, YES, I can marry that Lady even with d child….

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    Nnebedum Nkiru bravery
    February 13, 2014 at 5:47 am

    I don’t  anything wrong in marrying a single parent as long as There’s love btw us, understanding to carry on & courage to overlook the opinion of others. I’ll personally marry & treat the child/children as mine. Tnx & have a a swell day.

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