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Talk To Steph: Who Should I Marry?

Hello Stephanie,

I’m in a very difficult situation now and I hope your readers can help me out.

I am 28 years-old and I have a boyfriend I have been dating for three years. We met in the University and started dating the year we graduated. The thing is he has been finding it very difficult getting a good job to help him settle down and start a family, but I’ve been very supportive and hoping things will get better for him. He also has some younger siblings that he’s taking care of. However, I recently met an older man who has lived abroad for many years and is ready to marry me. He has way more money than my boyfriend. He has met my parents and although they like my boyfriend, they are getting impatient with him and suggesting I should go for this older man.

I’m so confused right now. Most of my friends are married or have kids already and I don’t want to get older before I settle down. Should I wait for my boyfriend to get more financially stable and marry me or leave him for this older man who is ready to get married now? – Sharon

Hello, dearies! What do you advise Sharon to do?

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    September 12, 2022 at 12:34 pm

    Check out the background of the guy whom you’ve been dating for 3years, of you’re satisfied with his personality and family, he hasn’t wronged you and you’re okay with him, work with him, tell people about him, help him land a better job, in no time, he’ll be good to be able to take up responsibilities of marrying you. Don’t leave the younger man cos his only fault is not to have made enough money to marry you. Pray and work with him, time will make good for you both.

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    September 19, 2022 at 7:26 am

    It’s such a difficult decision to make but it has to be made. I wud advise she goes with the older man bcus there are no guarantees with the younger man.

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