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How will you react to this!

You’ve been dating this person for 9 months, then you get engaged…but the pressure of life comes in the way of your love and both of you couldn’t handle it.

So you break up.

Only to hear 3 months later that he/she is getting married soon.

How will you react to this?

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    July 28, 2014 at 12:13 pm

    Its okay by me…cos i believe if are meant for each other by God, we will definately be together.

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    July 28, 2014 at 12:14 pm


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    Eshua ruth
    July 28, 2014 at 12:14 pm

    I’ll feel bad 4 a while nd also nt feel bad.
    I’ll feel bad 4 d fact dt it wud av bin me in dt wedding dress wit him.
    Nd l wudnt feel bad cos,evryfin happens 4 a reason.wu knws,if we had married,it wud av bin a case of divorce later on.or even hell on earth…
    A broken relatnship is better dan a broken marriage.
    Cos no au,u wud av lost somfn(most impotantly ur kids)

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    July 28, 2014 at 12:16 pm

    They was never love btw them.

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    July 28, 2014 at 12:32 pm

    I think God knows every single thing that happen in our lives,so all I have to do is to congratulate him/her because God knew why it happend that way,thanks.

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    Akan lawrence
    July 28, 2014 at 1:23 pm

    I’ll know that she wasn’t for me and breaking up before marriage is better than breaking up (divorce) after marriage.

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    July 28, 2014 at 3:39 pm

    Accept it as fate, allow d wound heal n move on.

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    Donald Omorogbe
    July 28, 2014 at 3:59 pm

    Both of them where not compatible

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    paschal N
    July 28, 2014 at 5:06 pm

    That will hurt a lot, there’s no doubt about that. But we should know that everything happens fσr a reason. If your hands ar filled with lets say bronze, n God wants †o give u gold or diamond, with which hands would u receive that?… So †he world will not end if your heart hurts, that shows u’re human n u really felt something fσr this person. If d feeling was mutual, 3mnths į̸s too soon 2think of marriage again. Let her go, she doesn’t worth u. Time they say heals everything, so just give it time, believe mε you’ll be fine.

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    hector engmann
    July 28, 2014 at 6:56 pm

    if our break up was from a fault or issue she created then getting the news that she’s marrying will make me think she was cheating on me with the guy she’s getting married to. if the breakup was from a fault by me and i still love her, i’d think its just her way to get back at me so i’d do everything to talk her out of marrying. three months by the way is too short for two different people to meet,get to know each other and then marry.

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    maris ome
    July 28, 2014 at 8:29 pm

    first question is, in the process of nine months dating,,were you people compatible? was there love for each other? if yes,, i think there would have been re union. but if in a short period of time each party found another love,it means the relationship was not perfect and complete. if i get to hear the news,,i will feel bad about it but i will move…GOD KNOWS Better.

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    Jeremiah Tarilado
    July 28, 2014 at 8:36 pm

    There was no Love in the first place.
    Life goes on.

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    Racheal Laye Edward
    July 28, 2014 at 8:40 pm

    It’s either our Hearts Were Never in it or it wasn’t meant to be

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    July 29, 2014 at 9:14 am

    Wow my dear it S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ painful very painful but it Ƒ♡̷̬̩̃̊r a reason
    It might take time before I get over it but with God I will get over it α̲̅πϑ will pray Ƒ♡̷̬̩̃̊r my. own 2 come

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    Lucy Ojih
    July 29, 2014 at 12:44 pm

    I will feel a little bad but I will also be happy for him,yes things it didn’t work out between us,but that’s okay,it was not meant to be.

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    Chizoba Helen
    July 29, 2014 at 1:04 pm

    I will move on,though it will bother me for sometime but life goes on. We werent destined to end up together.

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    Furo simon
    July 29, 2014 at 2:36 pm

    What will be will surely be.

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