You’ve been dating this person for 9 months, then you get engaged…but the pressure of life comes in the way of your love and both of you couldn’t handle it.
So you break up.
Only to hear 3 months later that he/she is getting married soon.
How will you react to this?
20 Comments
George
July 28, 2014 at 12:13 pmIts okay by me…cos i believe if are meant for each other by God, we will definately be together.
EZEKIEL Y.DICKSON
July 28, 2014 at 12:14 pmCONGRATULATE HER!
Eshua ruth
July 28, 2014 at 12:14 pmI’ll feel bad 4 a while nd also nt feel bad.
I’ll feel bad 4 d fact dt it wud av bin me in dt wedding dress wit him.
Nd l wudnt feel bad cos,evryfin happens 4 a reason.wu knws,if we had married,it wud av bin a case of divorce later on.or even hell on earth…
A broken relatnship is better dan a broken marriage.
Cos no au,u wud av lost somfn(most impotantly ur kids)
chidi
July 28, 2014 at 12:16 pmThey was never love btw them.
chibuzor
July 28, 2014 at 12:32 pmI think God knows every single thing that happen in our lives,so all I have to do is to congratulate him/her because God knew why it happend that way,thanks.
Akan lawrence
July 28, 2014 at 1:23 pmI’ll know that she wasn’t for me and breaking up before marriage is better than breaking up (divorce) after marriage.
Omowunmi
July 28, 2014 at 3:39 pmAccept it as fate, allow d wound heal n move on.
Donald Omorogbe
July 28, 2014 at 3:59 pmBoth of them where not compatible
paschal N
July 28, 2014 at 5:06 pmThat will hurt a lot, there’s no doubt about that. But we should know that everything happens fσr a reason. If your hands ar filled with lets say bronze, n God wants †o give u gold or diamond, with which hands would u receive that?… So †he world will not end if your heart hurts, that shows u’re human n u really felt something fσr this person. If d feeling was mutual, 3mnths į̸s too soon 2think of marriage again. Let her go, she doesn’t worth u. Time they say heals everything, so just give it time, believe mε you’ll be fine.
hector engmann
July 28, 2014 at 6:56 pmif our break up was from a fault or issue she created then getting the news that she’s marrying will make me think she was cheating on me with the guy she’s getting married to. if the breakup was from a fault by me and i still love her, i’d think its just her way to get back at me so i’d do everything to talk her out of marrying. three months by the way is too short for two different people to meet,get to know each other and then marry.
maris ome
July 28, 2014 at 8:29 pmfirst question is, in the process of nine months dating,,were you people compatible? was there love for each other? if yes,, i think there would have been re union. but if in a short period of time each party found another love,it means the relationship was not perfect and complete. if i get to hear the news,,i will feel bad about it but i will move…GOD KNOWS Better.
Jeremiah Tarilado
July 28, 2014 at 8:36 pmThere was no Love in the first place.
Life goes on.
Racheal Laye Edward
July 28, 2014 at 8:40 pmIt’s either our Hearts Were Never in it or it wasn’t meant to be
Lillian
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Lucy Ojih
July 29, 2014 at 12:44 pmI will feel a little bad but I will also be happy for him,yes things it didn’t work out between us,but that’s okay,it was not meant to be.
Chizoba Helen
July 29, 2014 at 1:04 pmI will move on,though it will bother me for sometime but life goes on. We werent destined to end up together.
Furo simon
July 29, 2014 at 2:36 pmWhat will be will surely be.
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