Hey people! Let’s get enlightened with this fun but life-saving post LOL!
When you find “someone special” and it seems everything is going right, there are obviously many traits you’d like about him/her that would make you want to stay forever, but what’s that one big thing that would make you walk away? What is your biggest turn-off in the opposite sex?
Share your opinion!
83 Comments
Gist-me.com
October 26, 2012 at 8:26 amOk…Really have to say that I dislike a Partner that complains alot…If My Girl nags alot..it tends to piss me off…If my girl can’t cook a Celebrity dish like “Afang soup/Edikaikong etc” I might start eating outside. I dislike a lazy girl…now don’t get me wrong here because I will be the last person to turn my girl into a slave. Lastly if a girl can’t go wild, be naughty, Do 69…explore…etc when it comes to sex….then I will say bye bye to her without looking back
chidi
October 26, 2012 at 8:27 amAttitude that was hidden.
Rowland
October 26, 2012 at 8:29 amwhen you nag and nag and expect me to do everything for u. Gosh! I hate that!
Sola
October 26, 2012 at 8:39 amIf he has bad breath then it’s a no go area for me
Ebuka Okoye
October 26, 2012 at 8:43 amI just hate body odour especially the one of their weavon/ Hair wigs
ben
October 26, 2012 at 8:46 amI hate lies
veronica
October 26, 2012 at 8:47 amI dislike a lazy man,habit dat can’t b changed nd a man who takes my simplicity 4 granted
Nkechinyere Eke
October 26, 2012 at 8:49 amArrogance!!! Oh how I dislike arrogant people! If u don’t have humility as a virtue, I’ll walk!
jennietobbie
November 14, 2012 at 9:47 pmwalking with you ALL the way lol
ego
October 26, 2012 at 8:49 amI hate some who nags a lot n himself frm me eg his caracters
Tracy
October 26, 2012 at 8:49 amI can’t stand an insensitive guy,someone who I̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊ proud, a liar and also a talkactive…..
tmine
October 26, 2012 at 8:50 amMy biggest turn off, is when when someone cheats
Victoria
October 26, 2012 at 8:50 amWen a guy is cheatin on me nd i caught him red- handed nd if my guy cant help mi wen am in nid,it pisses mi off real bad.
millex
October 26, 2012 at 8:52 amI hate it when she nags and when she expect me to do euerything for her in terms of spending
chikaodi
October 26, 2012 at 8:52 amWhen his not educated and he can’t make a complete sentence in english and his accent is zero. I will run for my life.
tigregy
October 26, 2012 at 8:54 amPetty men turn me off,and also men that are unforgiven holding everything in and secretely planning a revenge,and what will the revenge be?!CHEATING blah…
millex
October 26, 2012 at 8:56 amA jealous one
Kagiso
October 26, 2012 at 8:57 amJealousy and low self esteem
Yemi Adebiyi
October 26, 2012 at 8:59 amChikaodi,
In view of what you say you dislike, you could have grammar-checked your comment before you posted it.
ebube
October 26, 2012 at 9:06 amLMAO!!!
Gist-me.com
October 26, 2012 at 9:17 amHehehehe….I can see folks already displaying what we are discussing…nice…hehehehe
James
October 26, 2012 at 9:24 amLOOOOOOL!!!! Chikaodi is talking about hating un-educated men and here she is getting all her spellings wrong. could dat mean we don’t deserve what we want some times? Cos Chikaodi def doesn’t seem like she deserves an educated man #justsaying
prisca oluchi
October 26, 2012 at 8:59 amI hate cheaters, arrogant, lazy n stingy man.
Mana
October 27, 2012 at 10:05 amSame here
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chi
October 26, 2012 at 9:01 amA man dat is nt truthful,even wen u hv caught him he still deny it OMG, also a proud man I can’t take dat cos he will always cause me pain.
Amanda
October 26, 2012 at 9:01 amWow, dis are so many disgusting attributes in most guys. But for me the major turn off is a braggart and a guy with a God complex. He neither calls and he attachs so much importance to himself, he brags about stuff he doesn’t have and the worst is a guy that is not spiritual.
moses
October 26, 2012 at 9:33 amAmanda u have a very good point
Adedayo
October 26, 2012 at 9:42 amLOL! Beware guys! This is the kind of woman you shouldn’t be dating! smh!
Aeryka Ifeoma
October 26, 2012 at 9:03 amIf he’s not straight forward n try to stop me from achievin my dream becuz of jealousy I wil witdraw cuz dat same man who wnt u to be full time house wife wil turn against u one day n call u a liability,also I hate guyz who womaniz alot*winkz*
KEHINDE ADEMOLU
October 26, 2012 at 9:06 amMY BIGGEST PROBLEM IN ARELATIONSHIP IS JEALOUSY 4RM THE OTHER PARTNER,COMPLAINS AND IF SHE CAN NOT COOK.
princessRoxy
October 26, 2012 at 9:08 amI dislike a proud and talkative fellow. When he can’t appreciate my love for him but keep comparing me. Its better you teach me rather than comparing me with that person, why not go to her if she better of. Its sucks me to be Negleted.
sir chikal
October 26, 2012 at 9:09 amI dislike lying, pretense (this the one I hate with passion). Display who you are to me, if I like you that way, then I will device a means of tolerating you, not that you a nagging gal, u pretend to be quiet whenever we are together. Also I dislike nagging and not being straightforward. If you don’t like me tell me that, if you can’t do something just be open and say your mind
RoseGodwin
October 26, 2012 at 9:11 amI hate smelly odors,stinginess,liers and cheats
Doris
October 26, 2012 at 9:14 amWhen i find out that ♍Ɣ partner ȋ̝̊̅§ lying τ̲̅ȍ ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ and i cnt trust him, and when i dnt trust him, i start going throught his phone, laptop, etc, and when he turn ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ into that person, it really turns ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ off and Τ̲̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ relationship will heat Τ̲̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ rock.
anita
October 26, 2012 at 9:14 amI hate men that doesn’t know their responsibility as a famaily man’that is the act of being irresponsible!
KEHINDE ADEMOLU
October 26, 2012 at 9:20 amMY BIGGEST PROBLEM IN A RELATIONSHIP IS JEALOUSY 4RM D OTHER PARTNER, AND ALSO SOMEONE WHO CANNOT COOK.
jean
October 26, 2012 at 9:21 amI dislike guys who are threatened by a womans achievements. And also a man who lacks manners
Tizza
October 26, 2012 at 9:22 amA don’t like men that want to speak for me, stingy ones,braggarts, biggest turn off those that don’t believe in God because its what defines me.
Scarlet
November 1, 2012 at 2:40 pmYou got it there sis. That’s the biggest turn off for me too. You are not Christian? Sorry, no show!
Ruby
October 26, 2012 at 9:25 amI am in love wit my guy nd am ready 2 b wit him nd only him no mata wat bt he doesn’t give a fuck abt me. His lies nd d fact dat he takes my simplicity 4 stupidity turns me of
Bariyat
October 26, 2012 at 9:31 amI hate lies.
nwachukwu sandra
October 26, 2012 at 9:31 amunfaithfulness
Kosoko olaitan adunni
October 26, 2012 at 9:35 amMy biggest turn off is when he cant speak polished and well constructed english…ewwwww i just can’t stand it..
tigregy
October 26, 2012 at 9:36 amRUBY,you are not supposed to be here,try a consolation Blog!he turns you off and you are still with him??when he marries you enh you yaff finished hian!
Kem
October 26, 2012 at 9:39 amWell, u said if I’ve found everything in d man and d only thing that can make me walk away (I.e. My biggest turn off) is “If he doesn’t have the fear of God” (I.e. If we aren’t compatible spiritually, if we don’t believe in d same God n His standard) I will walk away cos I can’t compromise that.
Dami hipo
October 26, 2012 at 9:43 amI hate pple that are idiot, for instance, if u have stated more than one dslike when d qstn is (biggest turnoff)
sheimbom Estella
October 26, 2012 at 9:46 amCare free attitude. Behaving as though am invincible
Nana ayeh ebenezer
October 26, 2012 at 9:47 amI will hate to see my lady been lazy in the house nd goin behind the counter(been floozy lady)
sospunky
October 26, 2012 at 9:49 amI dislike dishonesty,be plain tell me how it is.
Eki
October 26, 2012 at 9:51 amSo many for me but I dislike most especially his being secretive, over possessive, having bad odour, a liar, and also a hypocrite.
Kem
October 26, 2012 at 9:51 amA man/woman without d fear of God can do anything, can hurt u without thinking twice. If those other many traits I like are there but without Christ, they will all come crashing down in times of crisis. Be wise! Christ is all and should be all in your life decisions
franca Ugbolue
October 26, 2012 at 9:54 amNothing. If you claim the person is special and have wonderful qualities, if you love him or her there is nothing love cannot conquer except you don’t know Jesus who set an example for us that we should follow His footsteps. Bless you
ugo
October 27, 2012 at 6:39 amWise response, Franca!!! Love conquers all jare….
Grayce
October 29, 2012 at 12:46 pmcovers a multitude of sins and endures all things…but i beg forget we are all imperfect and there are somethings we no go fit conquer in another person
Berny
November 27, 2012 at 7:04 pmFranca u’re right. Grayce the consideration of love and the consideration of a habit are two different things but with prayers and perseverance the bad habits will be put to flight.
adeola adeoye
October 26, 2012 at 9:58 amI hate a man dat complain a lot. A man dat won’t take me 4 who I am. Nd also a man dat don’t care abt my feelings. All he do is 2 make me cry. I hate such man
Faith
October 26, 2012 at 9:59 ami dislike man who cnt stand shoudr his responsibities.quarrelsm,proud.stingy.
Grayce
October 29, 2012 at 12:46 pmbbe i beg which one is quarrelism?are u quarrelling with the English language?
Baiden williams
October 26, 2012 at 10:06 amWht wil turn mi off is a gal who doesn’t care abt a guy n also doesn’t appreciat wht a guy is doing 4 her.
chi
October 26, 2012 at 10:13 amAs for me I dislike a guy who can’t take his own personal dicision as a man!
nkomi
October 26, 2012 at 10:41 amlow self esteem.
anny
October 26, 2012 at 10:47 amI dislike a man that is nt God fearing,a cheat and a jealous guy.
Enock O
October 26, 2012 at 11:01 amWhat turns me off is PRETENSE. It is common with Nigerian Women, Ladies and Girls. Please read what is on this link: http://www.informationnigeria.org/2012/07/condom-produce
Yet, our women keep pretending. Our women are real turn off.
Harmony
October 26, 2012 at 11:08 amI dislike a guy that complain a lot, and so proud of himself, so selfish on bed just to certify himself and don’t care if u are ok. I dislike a man that is not romantic, finally I dislike a dirty guy.
Enock O
October 26, 2012 at 12:04 pmIf your guy does not satisfy you in bed, speak out and tell him you dont have to dislike him for that maybe he does not know that you are not satisfy. If you are a Nigerian girl, am scared cos I know you wont speak out because of the pretense that is killing you girls. Also, make sure that you are not a nympho.
Endurance
October 26, 2012 at 11:30 amTurn off i hate mostly r.a gal 2 nagging,unsatisfy,unciean n cheating
Precious
October 26, 2012 at 11:33 amBiggest turn off in a guy is his lack of attention to my emotions n disrespect you disrespect a gal phew u sure don’t love her cos the more the respect the more the love
dINMA
October 26, 2012 at 11:38 amWhen he starts telling lies about too many things, then i can’t trust him anymore cos i don’t no the next lie he is planning to tell to cover his shits.
titilayo ibidun
October 26, 2012 at 12:14 pmI hate cheatin,bad odours nd irresponsible gal
Vanessa
October 26, 2012 at 12:19 pmBad breath and when he is nt so into God.
Vivian Amadi
October 26, 2012 at 12:50 pmI hate a man dats secretive an proud 2…
Angela
October 26, 2012 at 1:28 pmGuys dat Lack God in dia lyf , guys wit bad breath, guys dat are not ready 2 learn how 2 b Successful or study successful Ppl
Zaria Emmanuel
October 26, 2012 at 2:27 pmAs for i will say “trust” trust because this word comes with so many children,
1st, trust comes with sacrife
2nd, trust comes jeasousy
3rd, trust comes love so when the trust is not there for my partner i guess i will just turn-off
Uchechi eze
October 26, 2012 at 3:08 pmI can spend eternity wit dem wen dey real nd sincere.bt call it off wen dey bin a cheat.
sheila
October 26, 2012 at 4:43 pmI hate it when he brags about himself. Really annoying.
Maurice
October 26, 2012 at 9:22 pmgals with selfishness atitude must not come across ma path becos that is ma biggest turn off…..send her air time she will find it difficult to call u atleast to let u knw that she got the airtime u sent to her..
Metche
October 29, 2012 at 9:56 amI can’t stand a guy who is selfish, proud and stingy
chisim
October 30, 2012 at 9:50 ami cant stand someone who is vulgar…and doesn’t know how to complement me.
adeB
October 30, 2012 at 10:46 amNothing grates on my nerves more than a guy who lies and is selfish to boot!
Janet Kpobi
November 1, 2012 at 3:27 pmi get turned off if the guy is not God fearing 1, takes my simplicity to mean i dont need anything as a lady no matter how financially ok i am 2, is not willing to make a decision about me 3 and to add salt to injury he is insensitive to my feelings, then there is no need to stay!!!!!
Eucharia
November 2, 2012 at 7:35 amabove all dat has been mentioned,Amman who doesnt have d fear of God will lie,cheat,nag,womanize,be arrogant,proud,selfish,complain,will even be dirty cos if he’s then he shld knw dat cleanliness is nxt to Godliness. but if he’s nt then he will do all manner of evil nd hurtn tins. lastly,love covers multitude of sin nd shortcoming.inorder words if a man loves y,he will accommodate ur errs nd make u d best he ever wanted.meaning even if u hv a body odour he dnt perceive it cos of d love. I really dislike fateful nd unGodfearing pole.
Christabel
November 2, 2012 at 3:36 pmI am hidden in God..so No God, No Chris! If you have God you’ll know understand 1st Corinthians 13…and know what love is so the cheating,lying,pride etc won’t be an issue! Now outside love…my biggest turn off is unintelligent speech haba! When you talk as though ur brain took a walk…I can’t handle that. The other 2 are things are things I can help work on. They are: bad odour and Bad English!The former is easier than the latter tho but that’s it!
Fauzzy Rex
November 5, 2012 at 12:30 pma guy without a mind of his own,takes my simplicity for granted and is proud,…that guy is a big turn off