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How Can You Tell When A Woman Really Loves You?

I asked the ladies the reverse of this question last week and got some feedback from my male fans who also wanted to know how to identify a lady who really loved a man.

Apparently, its not only difficult for the ladies to tell when a man truly loves her, its also difficult for a man to identify a lady that truly loves him and is not playing with his heart.

Women are more emotional than men, and obviously find it easy to express love even more than the men. They say it with words, with their body language, with their laughter, with their tears and more. On the reverse, a woman can also easily deceive a man, making him believe she loves him when she doesn’t.

A woman who is truly in love with a man…

1. Calls him or sends him messages often expressing her love for him
2. Does interesting things to please him like cook his favorite meal
3. _________________________

It’s time again to hear from you. Complete the list. Guys, how can you tell when a woman really loves you? Ladies, what do you do to show that you really love a man?

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    cindy ivy
    January 21, 2015 at 6:47 pm

    will be bothered if you pass a day before calling

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    January 21, 2015 at 8:00 pm

    How to know when a woman loves a man is that she is often available for him, encourages him and doesn’t ask for money thus allowing the man to use his church mind to give her if he truly loves her.Above all is attitude him and family is also necessary. Then when she visits cooking favorite meal trying avoid eating out.tells him she loves him but not everytime and also allow the man to reciprocate the love by hiding yours sometimes. Most times if you show a man too much love in relationships become s a problem, he might think she a man love in relationships but not too much until he takes you to the alter then you can pamper him and let all the love pour.

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    Henry denna
    January 21, 2015 at 8:21 pm

    I think is not only when a woman love’s you she will call and send txt msg not all women are like that they can xpress their love in another way

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      January 22, 2015 at 7:20 am

      that’s what we really want to know,, we know gals express their love in different way but what are the ways?

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    eseji emeka Anthony
    January 21, 2015 at 9:25 pm

    by providing everytin u needs,also wanna know wen she is sad or happi!!!!

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    Racheal Laye Edward
    January 21, 2015 at 9:35 pm

    She spends for U, she include U in her Plans, she makes U a priority, she supports U, she believes in U, She ShareS her problems with U n does same for U

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    Bill Hilton
    January 21, 2015 at 10:15 pm

    U can knw dat a woman loves u through her behavoir or altitude toward u like,caring 4 u,supporting u sharing her happy n sad moment with u,always b there when u need her n etc…

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    Izuagie Yvonne
    January 21, 2015 at 11:13 pm

    i agree with you Marian

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    January 21, 2015 at 11:30 pm

    pls help me list the other way women expresse their love for men apart from texting & calling

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    January 22, 2015 at 12:09 am

    You all have said it perfectly but I will like to add a little bit of mine. Identifying a woman love for a guy is quite difficult but other ways I think is very important is that she would love to share in every of your dreams & vision, respect you no matter who you are, be with you in every dark and thin situation, never give up loving you no matter what people says about you, never give in for gossip & any form of black mailing, respect your parents & friends, always be your best friend & lots more. The list are endless…..

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    Solomon chisa
    January 22, 2015 at 4:07 am

    She does not run extra mobile no other than the one her man has and her mobile is usually accessible by him. She does not make her man fret by keeping too close another man not in the name of anything. She is open and wants her man to know every thing about her…this she does to earn his trust.

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    January 22, 2015 at 7:21 am

    If one is truly in love, she will be faithful.

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    January 22, 2015 at 12:31 pm

    U are a real lady.woy3 guy ..u made d perfect statement.

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      January 22, 2015 at 12:33 pm

      @rahael laye Edward

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    January 22, 2015 at 12:44 pm

    u can know a woman loves u by her way of doing things for she helps in cleaning yr house,cooking,washing etc and she gets angry wen u dnt tell her wats wrong with u.And the most impt is no matter how u push her to the world she will hardly get angry bt not as a weakness.

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    Nana Yaa
    January 22, 2015 at 1:33 pm

    I think u r all right bt some men r too wicked,e more u show ur love e more e take advantage of u.

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    January 22, 2015 at 2:46 pm

    a girl in love likes to spend every possible time with her lover.she steals glances at him especially when he isn’t looking.and also looks directly into his eyes while chatting with him.

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      February 3, 2015 at 3:04 pm

      Tells him….his faults n mistake,n also tell him the truth always

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    January 22, 2015 at 2:51 pm

    a girl in love likes to spend every little time with him.steals glaces at him especially when he isn’t looking.and also looks directly into his eyes while chatting with him.

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    Perez T Michael
    January 23, 2015 at 3:20 am

    When a woman loves a man she’s more careful with anything that concerns the man, she’s patient with him, listens not only to his words but also to his emotions, she may not always say the I Love You words, by the look in her eyez or by her actions he’ll know, she’s willing to sacrifice her time just to make him feel secure when necessary, she’ll support him mentally, physically, spiritually and financially, she knowz what to say to him, where and when to say it, she’ll be his friend and best friend, she’ll always let him be the man even when she don’t understand, and she trust him without a doubt.

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    Robert Ngwu
    January 23, 2015 at 9:00 am

    The worst thing that could ever happen to a man is to go through life without being absolutely sure exactly why his woman is with him. Is it the money, prestige, family heritage, or pressure from family?

    Unfortunately, this is common in Nigeria. Every Saturday, wedding ceremonies are taking place around the country with loveless couples who don’t really know who they are getting married to…marriage of convenience.

    Having said that here’s how a man can tell if his woman truly loves him:

    1. Observe her close girlfriends. How are they treating you? Close girlfriends-sisters know exactly how they feel about you. She will tell them things she will never dream of telling you. Discount the mischievous ones who may want to snatch you away from her

    2. She respects you both in public and in private

    3. She’s patient with you

    4. She adores you for simply no reason

    5. For married couple she still respects you long after wedding

    6. She fights with you when necessary but quickly makes up with you. A woman who doesn’t fight with you has lost interest in you

    7. She constantly communicates with you

    8. She finds time to cook for you even when you have paid chef

    9. She cares about your parents and does not disrespect them even when they become, you know, regular ever interfering Nigerian parents. She allows her man to handle his parents

    10. Your relatives are comfortable visiting the house just like her relatives

    11. She interests herself in your fantasies, not necessarily limited to your sexual fantasies

    12. She takes care of you by making sure you don’t leave home looking like, well, a contented man

    13. She’s sympathetic and emphatetic

    14. She takes care of herself and always presents herself wholesome to you

    15. She’s patient with you in bed but skillfully educate you without messing up your ego

    16. She does not maliciously hide her money from you unless you are notoriously reckless with money

    17. She loves spending time with you but gives you necessarily space

    18. Your actions easily affects her her emotions

    19. She cries for you. Beware of a woman who’s so hardened they will never shed tears for you

    And more……

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      January 23, 2015 at 12:11 pm


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      January 24, 2015 at 10:46 am

      how about introducing a man to her parents

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      January 28, 2015 at 8:18 am

      Well listed

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    January 23, 2015 at 12:14 pm

    Hmmmm…., I lov these points

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    mansur yarima
    January 23, 2015 at 4:39 pm

    all u have said is right but u have to confirm in the lab, by doing love specific antigen test

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    January 24, 2015 at 10:02 am


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    January 24, 2015 at 1:10 pm

    When a lady is truly in love with she respects u alot, easily gives in during arguments to avoid hurting or embarrassing u, succumbs to your sexual desires at all times and she always shares her dreams of living a couple life of u and her! On the contrary, a lady who is faking her love for u always uses sex as an ultimatum for something else. A lady who truely loves is always intoxicated with ur presence for good and misses u alot when u are not around. She calls u different names of different flavors simply because she is confused as to which of the sweet names suits you the best! You introduce ur friends and relatives to her once and she never forgets their names!

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    January 25, 2015 at 1:37 pm

    She cares about your well-being. Always call you, give you pet names and always wants to hear your voice.

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      February 3, 2015 at 1:41 pm

      That is not true

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    January 28, 2015 at 9:53 am

    @Robert Ngwu…well said!absolutely!

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    obetta ene stella
    January 28, 2015 at 10:38 pm

    Hmmnnmmm dis is really interesting, really learning from here.

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    February 3, 2015 at 1:38 pm

    I really dont beleive in love

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    February 3, 2015 at 5:26 pm

    First time here!…I’m impressed with thoughts !
    Wisdom sees all truth about love and who merits.
    God help us all

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    alamin sulaiman
    February 4, 2015 at 12:37 am

    troust a man but don’t troust a gils in love.

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    alamin sulaiman
    February 4, 2015 at 1:02 am

    A simple hello could lead to a million’s things in .love

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    alamin sulaiman
    February 4, 2015 at 1:05 am

    everyone has sex but only a few of us make love……. so sex is not love.

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    February 28, 2015 at 10:53 am

    my woman is totally angry with and I just don’t know what to do again I have tryed doing all I can yet she is not……

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    February 28, 2015 at 1:13 pm

    what if ur man is ash, on you how will you cop with him

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