The truth about women – and the men who love them – goes beyond how they look or what they wear. Sometimes, its the less obvious attributes women have that get their man’s attention.
So, ladies, I did us a favour by asking people, mostly men, about what gets their attention. Here are some of the responses I got.
1. Flipping Your Hair: Women do this better with a hairstyle that has a front or side fringe. It might seem very innocent, but men love it when women do that. Trust me. I know.
2. Adjusting His Tie: Ladies, do you sometimes reach for your husband’s tie and adjust it, even when it really doesn’t need to be adjusted… Lol! He might not say it, but he loves the thoughtfulness behind that action.
3. Leaving Some Treats For Him: Most times, when I buy myself a treat, it could be anything from chocolates to a rare fruit, I leave some in the fridge for my hubby. It’s not about the price of the treat, but the thought behind leaving some for him that matters.
4. Getting Your Makeup Done: I know most men grumble when they are about to go out with their wives and she is spending the whole time putting her makeup on. He might not like being kept waiting, but he likes the fact that you put extra care into looking good when going out with him.
5. Acting Goofy: Sometimes, its cool to just act silly and childish. Men love this. You could do a silly dance or talk in a funny voice and just make the mood lighter. This brings about some healthy laughter which is great for any relationship.
6. Cooking Rare & Tasty Meals: Most times, women think that because cooking is something they do regularly, there is nothing so special about it. I disagree. Men appreciate the time their wives spend in the kitchen cooking for them, especially if the meal is lip-smacking tasty.
7. Biting Your Lips: When done the right way, with just enough eye contact, you are sure to melt your man’s heart.
8. Scolding With Love: Men can act like babies some times…. leave their clothes lying around, messing up the house with litter, scattering their clothes moments after you arranged it! They know they did wrong, but the way you react and scold them lightly with love makes all the difference to them. They totally love it (even though they will do the same thing again).
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I’d love to hear from you SL Fabz. Tell me one more thing women do that men love.
29 Comments
Abubakar musa Saidu
April 21, 2015 at 12:13 pmYou are vry inteligent good løokin inpact i lyk evry thing abt you.@stephanie
GHEGHERE JEWEL
April 21, 2015 at 12:16 pmThere are men who don’t like ladies putting on make ups, they always say they need Africa woman that we ladies of now look artificial
Mojisola Obazuaye
April 21, 2015 at 12:25 pmVery insightful. Thanks for sharing
Mj
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Steven Lomoliwa
April 21, 2015 at 1:00 pmWe learn more things from you, we Love you!
graceey
April 21, 2015 at 1:21 pmmen love it when dey catch u praying for them. my hubby makes it a duty for me to bless his day before he goes out every morning.
NICHOLAS N
April 22, 2015 at 9:51 pmWow! This is one of the greatest thing I will forever love and appreciate in a Woman. For a woman to have the love of God and be prayerful, is all the whole of my kinded pleasure.
Lilian
April 21, 2015 at 2:24 pmThank you Stephanie for all the things you share here,your a sweetheart and also my role model. May God continue blessing and increasing you in all sides.
For me i think men also love seeing they women looking hot/sexy/attractive especially at home.
Okoro chika
April 21, 2015 at 3:07 pmTanks ve learnt.
Amponsah justice
April 21, 2015 at 3:20 pmLeading him to the car before he leaves for work.
Aminat
April 21, 2015 at 3:35 pmI like it
Awesome
chimerem
April 21, 2015 at 3:39 pmSounds like in the movies but cool though. I have a question for you Stephanie and would love to know how to get it to you and have it answered. Its something out of the blue.
sandra
April 21, 2015 at 3:51 pmThanks 4 sharing. In addition, i think appreciating his gifts no matter how little or unuseful
Switlish
April 21, 2015 at 6:03 pmAlways say thank you with a good smile for everything he gives u no matter how small.
doris
April 21, 2015 at 6:54 pmDoing new things like buying new lingerie,giving him d total TLC wn he gets back from work,calling him to check up on him at work and they love the question ‘have you eaten?’
Nnamdi
April 21, 2015 at 8:26 pmI like that first point, the flipping of hair. I guess that is the altimate.
Osofuye Mojisola
April 22, 2015 at 5:17 amit’s a gud tin 4 we ladies 2 learn.men lyk communicatin ,by askin,hv u eaten ? if yes wht did u tak ? hw ws ur day ? I mean showin care,dey luv it.
Racheal Laye Edward
April 22, 2015 at 6:39 amGuys love when women thank and compliment them
ogundare bola
April 22, 2015 at 8:10 am9- Men love it when a woman canmake the first move (sometimes),initiating love making, and nibbling the lips is a way to start
joy
April 22, 2015 at 8:36 amGod bless u dear stephy.i think men also like it when u
askfor more afer an inter course
ishioma
April 22, 2015 at 8:55 amIn fact I love everything you just mentions.
NINA VALERIE
April 22, 2015 at 10:52 ami love this,stephanie and i admire you too much
Loveline
April 22, 2015 at 12:57 pmYes you are very right Steph. My husband love number 1, 4,5, 6,7 &8. He also loves it when I lead in prayer. And for those of you who think that no matter what you do, your man will not like it, and they are wicked. The answer to that is very simple, ‘There is no true love’ QED………I bet you, if you have the right man in your life, your experience will surpass that in this post. And for those of us who do, we just have to be greatful to God. And always reciprocate our mans’ love for us.
chuks
April 22, 2015 at 1:29 pmI love stephinie from the word go, used to be my favorite actress in all nigerian movies in those days when I used to watch. well done dear
Nwa Chukwu
April 22, 2015 at 1:51 pmCharacter matters alot in both, but more especially in ladies.
Never discusse your man with anyone because something………
Kay
April 22, 2015 at 4:16 pmNice one…. Mr Idahosa should be proud having u.
Stephanie
April 22, 2015 at 11:12 pmYea ve learnt a lot. You are a real motivator….#Acting Goofy
Oluwatoyin Balogun OLANIYI
April 23, 2015 at 6:24 amSteph, I love this. Though have been hurt in a bitter manner but, have come across articles that say “let your mind be free always sothat, your demands can be meant” Oh! This has actually worked for me. It takes a man to love a woman all things been equal. It’s the e act of ladies waiting and thinking a wicked man will change someday that result to deep destruction of their hearts and unfortunately some of them carry on and on and when they are tell stories what they have to say is most men are wicked.Note that some men have gone through hell in the hands of some ladies too.
Itia Golder
April 23, 2015 at 10:44 amYou are so inspiring Stephnie, i have learnt alot from u. May God bless u always with new wisdom and knowledge.
Chuks
April 23, 2015 at 2:40 pmthat was really thoughtful….. now i knw little secret lol