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Is the grass greener on the other side?

Not likely.

If you are going to enjoy life’s journey…if you are going to birth phenomenal ideas and pursue greater goals, you must understand that comparing or equating yourself to others will not only leave you depressed and unfulfilled, it will drive all of your dreams to nought. You are on this race alone. Yes, there are people and there are competitions; they all have their place! Your job is not to compare your neighbour’s car or house or wardrobe to yours; your job is to get your own life on the right track and live out your own purpose. Focus on what’s important. Half the time we worry and emphasize the insignificant whilst we leave the crucial areas of our lives unattended to.

The grass is green where you are; if you want it greener then you have to water it. You can get your grass green, and you can get it to wilt.

It’s all in your power.

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    July 16, 2014 at 1:17 pm

    Thanks steph for your wise words. Indeed not all that glitters is Gold.let’s always thank God for what we have.

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    July 16, 2014 at 1:30 pm

    You are right Ma’am. Nice write up

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    July 16, 2014 at 2:01 pm

    U knw in every race there are people needed? But i wish success to any1 who wish thesame 2 his/her self.

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    Tina Peter
    July 16, 2014 at 3:47 pm

    †̥​ really Appreciate Ūя̲̅ words of wisdom,A̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ †̥​ pray τ̅☺ work Wiτ̩̩̥​h it

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    Racheal Laye Edward
    July 16, 2014 at 9:03 pm

    Even the Holy Bible Says “those that compare themself with themselves are not wise”.
    A lovely piece this is.

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    Jeremiah Tarilado
    July 16, 2014 at 9:08 pm

    The only Competition one should have is one’s self. To be better each day, than you were the previous day.
    Live your life and pursue your dreams.
    This is a beautiful write up.
    Me like!!!!

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    July 17, 2014 at 9:08 pm

    that’s right steph…but i compare greater people achievements with mine so it can captivate me to work harder in life and achieve greater goals like them…what do you think?

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    Deborah olushegun
    July 18, 2014 at 11:53 am

    Am inspired,tanks Steph.

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    July 18, 2014 at 3:02 pm

    That’s so true Steph keep up the good work.

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    Ajara Jagne
    July 23, 2014 at 10:43 pm

    Thank Ms.Okereke for this inspiring piece I will always remember this

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