Beautiful scars…

nana ama

i lisp when i was a little girl, people teased me a lot so it made me very uncomfortable.it actually affected my self esteem when i was growing up till a time i decided to look at my positives instead of my weakness. I made what i call honest list; it simply writing my strengths and weakness on a sheet of paper and find a way of dealing with my weakness.after that i got to know that my positives far outway my weakness then i told myself hey girl take a chill pill cus u are a great lady.i opted to teach to enchance my speech and public speaking.whew my fears are gone cus i took that bold step.i currently teach in a senior high school and will start my masters in september.

francisca bessem

stephani dear i really do appreciate,all ur advices and i see u like a Diva, am happi 4 ur happy mariage,and career.i do ve a scare on my left leg i had an Okada accident,and i incured a born fracture on my tibia,so some time it makes me less sexy cos i cant wear my short dresses, of which i have very good legs.pls i need help from u

sarah Noah

thanks for this opportunity, the scars on my body is nt a result of accident, but a mosquito bite and chicken pox, i dt no what to use on it, is just all over my leg.

mel

it you looks like you re talking to me steh, i have this scar of heartbreaks and bad relationship, am so down just cant do anything positive for my self, i feel God does not even care for me, am bitter at heart and am scared for myself i wish i could cry just to get some pain off my heart but i cant, am worried am growing (31) and cant find any stable relationship, pls pls help me,

Uray

Sometimes in life, we concentrate so much more the scars that we fail/forget to thank God for saving us from the situations that brought about the scar. I have a scar on my stomach from surgery and I have long gotten used to it.

Thanks Steph.

nono2020

thx Steph…. i ve scar in my hand and leg…. be4 i was regretting it becuz people pity and think i cant move forward…. but 2day i am so much happy because i now know that God is a great God because he has a purpose of my condition.

Janet Kpobi

all my life its like anyone i reach out to help or love stabs me real hard in the back and all these years i wonder if anyone can really love me for just who i am and not what they expect me to be..
at the moment i am confronted with a issue of entering into another relationship and my fear is that will it work out at this age of 33? and is it worth the try?

helen

stephy thanks alot.giving pple’s life a meaning is removing their scars. love urself d way u r, i did jus dat n am better of.

Tasha

Hiya Step, thumbs up on your new blog…

I got a sad story to share..Some would say was i stupid or dumb, but unless you’re in my shoes, do not to pass judgement..Only i experienced it all and i alone understand best..I’ve got a huge scar deep in my heart and as i write this, i can’t help or stop the tears from falling…For 4 year, i loved a man with all my heart, i was loyal, i cared for, was faithful, was patient and it the end, he betrayed me.. It still feels like he took a very sharp knife and stabbed be in the chest real deep. i thought i had a best friend, confidant & lover, but what he did in the end is the worst thing anyone can possibly face..

i have been in an on & off relationship with a stranger (thought he was my best friend till he betrayed me) for 4years. In between, we’ve discussed getting married and somewhere along the way, he changed his mind and anytime i make a decision to move on with my life, we manage to come back together. Though there were girls somewhere along but we still managed to find our way back to each other. it just seemed to me that God kept bringing us together for some reason. We’ve gone through so much together but we still managed to stay together. We’ve grown together over the past couple of years and are so much attached to one another. So what happened? Thats the answer i don’t have today.

In all the years we’ve spent together, we’ve talked and planned marriage severally, but he just wouldn’t step up. Bear in mind that he was the one who always talked of marriage and me being the woman he’d like to spend the rest of his life with. He’s well accepted and known in my family, so am i in his.. So recently we had an issue and i gave him an ultimatum to step up and do the right thing he was supposed to have done years back, but he couldn’t. What he went and did was propose to someone else, his ex gf from way back. Till date i still have questions without answers. How, why, where and what happened? We were so close that we saw each other everyday so i cant still place when and where he managed to go visit or spend time with this girl let alone propose to her. Presently, im still in shock and hurt over the whole incident. And worst of all, he wasn’t man enough to tell me to my face that he was seeing someone else or that he was gon’ propose. i had to find out from outside. To be honest, he NEVER gave me any indication that he was seeing someone else God be my witness cos he never changed toward me.

Now barely 2 weeks after he’s proposed to someone else, he’s all up in my grill.. Telling me shit of that im all he’s ever wanted in a woman and wife but for someone reason he felt God guided him that way…Ive tried to stop communicating with him, but still yet he’s still struggling to be in my life. He says he’s engaged but yet he wants everything from someone else (me) People say i should cut him totally that he doesn’t deserve to be in my life, and still he wouldn’t give up. Ive stopped picking his calls and reading his messages, but i have to be totally honest, it’s the hardest. This is someone that’s been part of my life and me his for 4 years. Im looking for answers and i cant find cos I’m wondering how someone who seemed to love me so much just walk away like that.. This is someone who has told me repeatedly that he cant live his life without me, so what happened and why???

drabo

Try and get back to your pre-pregnancy state. Let your husband remember why he chose you above the rest. You can use bio-oil for the stretch marks (even slim people have stretch marks). Lose the extra weight, pamper yourself, dress nice, look hot, give him the best sex he has ever had tonight – read, watch and practice.

tolu

Steph, dis really touched me, had this bone deformity since I was small nd I feel really limited, I feel lyk m not as beautiful as people say I am nd av avoided any serious relationship wt any guy. I think God wanted u to write dis 4 me, tanx 4 being a blessing to me 2nite. I love nd appreciate u nd dis article. U r really a positive impact to this generation

BB

A scar simply means you were stronger than whatever tried to hurt you!

linach

Stephy u̶̲̥̅̊ aяε da bomb!!!! I thank τ̣̣ђё Lord for u̶̲̥̅̊ and also Ŧђɑ̤̥̈̊п̥̥̲̣̣̣kƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇ for answering U̶̲̥̅̊Я call and working towards Gods purpose for U̶̲̥̅̊Я life! I love u̶̲̥̅̊ ϑε̲̣åя̩̥ie. Well, I’ve learnt never t̶̲̥̅̊ợ̣̣̇̇̇ live in ♍υ̲̣̥ past anymore, t̶̲̥̅̊ợ̣̣̇̇̇ overlook and learn from M̶̲̥̅̊y̶̲̥̅̊ past mistakes and t̶̲̥̅̊ợ̣̣̇̇̇ always do ♍υ̲̣̥ best in all I do. I won’t say I,ve had τ̣̣ђё best relationships but Å̶̷̩̥͡•̸Ϟ stronger each day. I realized dat each time I have a heartbreak and said dat I won’t love again, dats even wen I fall in love stupidly with someone else. So I’ve known dat its ♍υ̲̣̥ nature. I prayed for wisdom and grace and Å̶̷̩̥͡•̸Ϟ better now cos I now know t̶̲̥̅̊ợ̣̣̇̇̇ manage ♍υ̲̣̥ emotions.
Θε̲̣åя̩̥ie, I don’t know why all τ̣̣ђё guys I meet dat W̶̲̥̅̊ȋ̊ƪƪ take ♍ξ serious c∕̴Ɩя̲̅é̸ alway broke or looking for a job etc. Unlike others dat jux get someone dat W̶̲̥̅̊ȋ̊ƪƪ take care Ø̶̷̩̥̊͡Ƒ̶̷̩̥̊͡ them, ♍υ̲̣̥ own is always different cos I W̶̲̥̅̊ȋ̊ƪƪ have t̶̲̥̅̊ợ̣̣̇̇̇ struggle wit him. I need help and I want t̶̲̥̅̊ợ̣̣̇̇̇ know why I can’t jux meet a rich guy dat W̶̲̥̅̊ȋ̊ƪƪ love ♍ξ and take G̶̲̥̅̊ΘΘD̸̸̮̮̃ care Ø̶̷̩̥̊͡Ƒ̶̷̩̥̊͡ ♍ξ. Why ♍υ̲̣̥ own different self?

ese

Scars!!! I’ve lived with mine for since I know what my name is. When I was a child, I had rashes on my legs and they always turned into small sores. As I was growing and paying attention to my looks, I started looking for solution to my skin problem- It wasn’t easy at all. Help finally came when I was in JSS3(14 years) but my legs were left with scars. I never wore short skirts, I had my trousers on most times. I graduated from university and still the shame of exposing my two scarred legs was still there. I worked in a company for 3 years and I only wore skirt one day and ofcourse it was a long one. To cut a long story short, just this year 2012 after I had my first child, I needed to return to work from my maternity leave and I needed to change my wardrobe since I added a few pounds then came another problem – I could hardly get a trouser suit of my taste in my size so i was forced to buy my first short skirt suit. It wasn’t easy wearing that piece to work but I had to. At this time, I was still far from overcoming the shame that came with the scars on my leg. One day, my Neighbour who runs a boutique brought a beautiful dress for me and I bought and wore it to church. The number of people that gave complement on my dress were countless. As I got home that day, I sat down and ask myself why I was restricting myself, why I wasn’t making myself happy by wearing whatever I wanted to wear. From that day forward, I saw no scars anymore, my mind shifted from the scars and today, I wear my short dresses and skirts without fear or restrictions

Jenny baby

This is an interesting piece and I culdnt agree wit u more…I hv held on to my scars for so long dat letting it was d best thing dat ever happened to me…keep it up stephanie

Nkeasi Joan

i had chicken pox that deform my face and i heard all type of things until some where saying that if they were my husband and i cook they will not eat, some even ignored me but i keep my life moving because that was not the end of my life but thank God today im fine again

Fedinat

I have had low self esteem for a long while because of pimples,wen I say pimples nt d one or two girls usually av bt so many on my face. When it came initially,I stopped all forms of socialising I choosed to stay indoors most tymz. It got 2 d point wher pple wuld stop me on the road to ask what was wrong with my face. With time it reduced but left me with so many spots. I’m still battling with the spots though & hoping that with time,I’ll regain my confidence. Most guys love spotless girls & seem to judge by a girls looks.

Cathy

Honestly i am touched. we all have scars but we don’t have to let it define the who we are as a person (people). i continue to rise above my scars/weaknesses if i can also call it that, none is perfect except our LORD. it can only get better when we refuse to be conquered by these scars and remember it’s a choice if you choose to allow it define you. choose wisely #remainbless

Adams Eche

For the past twenty years, I have never slept more than 4 hours per day. Is not that I don’t want to sleep, is just that I don’t have it

jennietobbie

this page is all inspiring.! Good job Steph

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