“Six years ago, a man (46 yrs old) married a 24 year old girl. Wife stayed back in Naija with the mother-in-law while the processing of her papers to join her husband began. After a while, no sign of processing again. After much pressure from the wife, the husband declared (after 2 kids) that he married her to be taking care of his mum who has partial stroke for 13 yrs now,and not to actually join him”. What do you advise the wife and her children to do now?