Relationships Talk to Steph

Talk To Steph: How long should you date before getting married?

Adaora, 27, has been in a relationship with Kingsley, 32, for two years. She works at an accounting firm, and he runs a furniture business.

Adaora says Kingsley is “kind, fun, romantic, and supportive”. He is the man she wishes to spend the rest of her life with and vice versa. She wonders when is the best time to talk about marriage as he is yet to bring up the subject.

She is not sure what to do. Two years is long enough to decide where this journey is leading to. When she brings the subject up, he tells her to “relax, fate will work it out”.

Fate? Hmm! She believes fate is important, but the wishes and decision of two willing partners is all the fate you really need. 

Ada wants to know: How long should she wait for the marriage proposal to come after two years of dating?

What are your thoughts?

xoxo SL

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