First of all, I think this question is ridiculous! None should be acceptable in a relationship.
However, I’ve been noticing this question trending on a couple of platforms and just recently, someone asked me the same question.
It’s quite sad that women are mostly on the receiving end of this. Statistics show that women are most often the victims of domestic violence in relationships, and they are also the ones who get cheated upon most times. The fact that this question is even being considered in the first place goes a long way to show that we as women need to do more in empowering ourselves financially. We must also build our confidence and self-esteem, and tell ourselves (including our daughters, sisters, mothers and friends) that we shouldn’t just wholeheartedly accept such undesirable treatment simply because we are women.
I do not really want to go into a rant about this, but this is how I feel.
How about you? What are your thougths on this topic?
Both are deal breakers for me.