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What I know for sure!

You is kind.

You is smart.

You is important.

Bad English (LOL!), but those are the most memorable words ever. I got it from the book and movie, The Help. After the character Aibeeelen witnesses the child (Mae Mobley Leefort) she is caring for being hurt over and over again by her mother, she decides to do something about it. Everyday she tells the young child in her care something good about herself: “You is Kind. You is smart. You is important, you hear me?”

I believe a message like this needs to spread to every child in Nigeria. We have too many timid children (made timid mostly by the people who should shower them with unconditional love). If this country is ever going to become great, we have to remind ourselves how special we are – and it starts with the man/woman in the mirror.

I am special. And so are you! *wink*

Happy Sunday!

 

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41 Comments

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    priscilla
    September 9, 2012 at 12:00 pm

    Well said sweedy

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    Jenny Okons
    September 9, 2012 at 12:03 pm

    I love it! Am rilly inspired now. Bless u steph!

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    Marc le Pere Mwanto
    September 9, 2012 at 12:03 pm

    I am also special as like Stephanie Okereke.

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    Rachael Niskan
    September 9, 2012 at 12:04 pm

    Me is special thanks swthrt 4 d message (lolz)

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    funmi Adeleke
    September 9, 2012 at 12:05 pm

    Very true. At a tender age i didn’t hear that very much and was forced to bear lots of things in school and later in life. But what i know for sure now is that Im Kind, Im Smart n Im important. Thanks for sharing words of encouragement Stephanie!

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    Aluka basil c
    September 9, 2012 at 12:06 pm

    gud

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    omali mimi nwakife
    September 9, 2012 at 12:07 pm

    Happy sunday dear

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    chynell
    September 9, 2012 at 12:08 pm

    same here steph….
    *happy sunday*

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    Ibok Offiong
    September 9, 2012 at 12:19 pm

    So true and well said Steph… I loved that movie too, and for the same singular reason. Wish all parents and guardians would watch and learn a thing or maybe 2 from the movie…

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    Ebuka Okoye
    September 9, 2012 at 12:24 pm

    Happy Sunday… Luv d pix, nice cloth and colour full of life… God bless you

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    poshbaby
    September 9, 2012 at 12:27 pm

    Well said

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    ifunanya vivian
    September 9, 2012 at 12:33 pm

    You inspire me wit ur attitude! Please continue to be u. God is ur strength. Love u sister.

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    Chidinma
    September 9, 2012 at 12:34 pm

    Happy Sunday to u stephanie,luv ya.huggs n kisses

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    chinelo
    September 9, 2012 at 12:34 pm

    So love it

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    patience Awhen
    September 9, 2012 at 12:38 pm

    U’ve said it al. I luv u

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    uche
    September 9, 2012 at 12:53 pm

    You are very intelligent my dear, ahead you go, God will always be with you in jesus name amen

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    Aysha
    September 9, 2012 at 1:08 pm

    I am smart, I am intelligent, I am blessed and favour is my name.

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    blessing
    September 9, 2012 at 1:09 pm

    Nice1

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    Afekhuai Mandy Toyin
    September 9, 2012 at 1:24 pm

    Yes! I am special.

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    Lovegod Inegite
    September 9, 2012 at 1:46 pm

    Happy 2 u my sister, God bless u dis message.

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    ify london
    September 9, 2012 at 1:48 pm

    Happy sunday luvly steph..U’re an Inspiration to ME…luv u LOADS!!!

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    Ify
    September 9, 2012 at 2:02 pm

    U made a nice statement,pals nomatter how small u are,ur background,what u are passing through always have in mind that u are important and wonderfully made 4m God. Frnd i Wil like to hear 4m u,u did me bad thing

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    folayan rasool
    September 9, 2012 at 2:18 pm

    This should be taught to children everywhere

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    Agboola Abimbola
    September 9, 2012 at 2:21 pm

    NICE ONE

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    Jenny baby
    September 9, 2012 at 2:22 pm

    For sure we all need positive words…like I always say be positive and stay positve….hapi sunday steph

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    omorefe naomi lydia
    September 9, 2012 at 2:28 pm

    i love this statement and i am special

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    tonia
    September 9, 2012 at 2:29 pm

    I luv this

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    Ernest Isang
    September 9, 2012 at 2:44 pm

    That is true,but we all so forget to teach them about the future if we can teach ++++++++++++++ then it will work for us all,bring up a child the right way and he will never depart from it.

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    Adaobi
    September 9, 2012 at 2:50 pm

    Nice talk i will no more feel inferior among my peers.I believe now dat am specially made.Thanks Steph and have a lovely sunday.

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    amazingrace
    September 9, 2012 at 4:24 pm

    Sure on point.

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    Uju
    September 9, 2012 at 5:47 pm

    Absolutely true.

    Deep inside I know I`m Special, Smart and Important and would not agree otherwise.

    Nice and great reminder.

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    loveth
    September 9, 2012 at 6:52 pm

    Happy Sunday to u too, God bless u and ur household.

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    Nicole
    September 9, 2012 at 11:56 pm

    Nice one.

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    pattyclues
    September 10, 2012 at 6:24 am

    That’s a true word, steph.

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    charyz
    September 10, 2012 at 9:02 am

    luv yeah always

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    sylvia
    September 10, 2012 at 11:17 am

    I’m so inspired. Thanks Nollywood Goddess

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    Cathy
    September 10, 2012 at 12:22 pm

    you is sweet, you is stunning, you is steph! i love you

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    Joseph Otim
    September 10, 2012 at 1:10 pm

    Steph, u r too much 4 me. Whatever u say, put on and deliver to ur funs, r as if calculated. Are u also a Mathematician? Gal!! dat dress of urs is simple but can turn into ‘weapon of mass destruction’. I lv it, cheers!!!!

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    jennıfer jey
    September 10, 2012 at 3:19 pm

    I was born out of wedluck in  everybody’s eye am noting, but your world inspired me i now know how inportant and special iam in  this world cos i know that one day i wil be inportant to those who sees me as noting, experically my mother’s family…thanks for U̶̲̥̅̊я world may the good lord be with u!

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    Jiro
    September 10, 2012 at 7:15 pm

    A beautiful piece… Keep inspiring

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    Ebuka Tony
    September 13, 2012 at 10:54 am

    Dats good! Is a kind of word every person will love 2 hear….thanks Stephanie……

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