{"id":9880,"date":"2017-09-29T08:36:05","date_gmt":"2017-09-29T07:36:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/?p=9880"},"modified":"2017-09-29T08:36:56","modified_gmt":"2017-09-29T07:36:56","slug":"talk-to-steph-my-husband-wants-me-to-quit-my-job","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/?p=9880","title":{"rendered":"TALK TO STEPH: My Husband Wants Me To Quit My Job"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Justina sent this in. What do you advise?<\/p>\n<p>Hear her:<\/p>\n<p>Hello Stephanie,<br \/>\nI work in the Health sector. As a result of the tight schedule of my husband and I, we decided to pay for care<br \/>\ngivers for our four and two year olds. My marriage has been blissful until I told my husband about the promotion I <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-9882 size-medium alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/quit1-300x215.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"215\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/quit1-300x215.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/quit1.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>got from my work place. This promotion means so much to me because it is a reward for my<br \/>\nefforts all these years; but at the same time, it is tearing my home apart. My husband said that I need to spend more time taking care of the family. That it is either I quit my job to take care of the family or I quit my marriage and take care of my job. I don&#8217;t think that is fair. This is my dream, and he has refused to understand. What steps should I take to solving this issue? Please I need your advise. &#8211;&nbsp;Justina<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s help Justina. Leave your comments below, she&#8217;ll read them.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Justina sent this in. What do you advise? Hear her: Hello Stephanie, I work in the Health sector. As a result of the tight schedule of my husband and I, we decided to pay for care givers for our four and two year olds. My marriage has been blissful until I told my husband about the promotion I got from my work place. This promotion means so much to me because it is a reward for my efforts all these years; but at the same time, it is tearing my home apart. My husband said that I need to spend more time taking care of the family. That it is either I quit my job to take care of the family or I quit my marriage and take care of my job. I don&#8217;t think that is fair. This is my dream, and he has refused to understand. What steps should I take to solving this issue? Please I need your advise. &#8211;&nbsp;Justina Let&#8217;s help Justina. Leave your comments below, she&#8217;ll read them. &nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9881,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[15],"tags":[27],"class_list":["post-9880","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-talk-to-steph","tag-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9880","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9880"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9880\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9884,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9880\/revisions\/9884"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/9881"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9880"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9880"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9880"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}