{"id":573,"date":"2012-09-24T11:51:17","date_gmt":"2012-09-24T11:51:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/?p=573"},"modified":"2012-09-27T09:19:16","modified_gmt":"2012-09-27T09:19:16","slug":"give-some-good-advice-and-win-recharge-cards","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/?p=573","title":{"rendered":"Give some good advice and win recharge cards!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>It\u2019s a new week and yet another opportunity to win credit vouchers! Yay!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/black-girl.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-575\" title=\"black girl\" src=\"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/black-girl-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/black-girl-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/black-girl-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/a>This week, we have Bunmi &#8211; an aspiring entrepreneur who needs some advice. From your comments, my fabulous team will pick 5 comments that they believe instructs Bunmi best on what to do about her predicament.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s her story\u2026<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Dear Stephanie,<\/p>\n<p>I am 25 years old, engaged to a very wonderful 35 year-old man whom I love and who loves me deeply and passionately. Through us, our families are now very close (my mum and his mum have become great pals and they travel a lot together etc). A few weeks back, I got a scholarship to study abroad. It\u2019s a 4-year programme (+ one year internship) and an opportunity to meet some of the best in my chosen field. I was so excited when I got it, but when I shared the good news with my fianc\u00e9, he wasn\u2019t so happy and suggested I shouldn\u2019t take it because the distance and my focus on education will affect our relationship. My mum also feels the same way. She told me that Nnamdi (my fianc\u00e9) is more important to me than any degree or pursuit at the moment. My dad is the only one on my side. My fianc\u00e9 is very comfortable and since we started dating two years now, he practically meets all my needs and supports all my dreams and helps fund my aspirations. But this time, he just isn\u2019t happy and says I shouldn\u2019t accept the scholarship (he doesn&#8217;t believe in long distance relationship\/marriage at all!). This scholarship is something I\u2019ve always wanted\u2026but again, Nnamdi is the kind of man I may never meet again. He is just perfect for me. I feel like my life is on pause at the moment because everyone is waiting for me to make my decision. I\u2019m afraid if I go, he may end up with someone else before the end of my course. What should I do \u2013 go ahead and get my degree or stay with Nnamdi and start a family? I really need your advice. &#8211; Bunmi<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>So my people, what do you think Bunmi should do?<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">The top 5 best advice (agreed by my team) will get N1000 recharge cards each sent to them.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s a new week and yet another opportunity to win credit vouchers! Yay! This week, we have Bunmi &#8211; an aspiring entrepreneur who needs some advice. From your comments, my fabulous team will pick 5 comments that they believe instructs Bunmi best on what to do about her predicament. Here\u2019s her story\u2026 Dear Stephanie, I am 25 years old, engaged to a very wonderful 35 year-old man whom I love and who loves me deeply and passionately. Through us, our families are now very close (my mum and his mum have become great pals and they travel a lot together etc). A few weeks back, I got a scholarship to study abroad. It\u2019s a 4-year programme (+ one year internship) and an opportunity to meet some of the best in my chosen field. I was so excited when I got it, but when I shared the good news with my fianc\u00e9, he wasn\u2019t so happy and suggested I shouldn\u2019t take it because the distance and my focus on education will affect our relationship. My mum also feels the same way. She told me that Nnamdi (my fianc\u00e9) is more important to me than any degree or pursuit at the moment. 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