{"id":4644,"date":"2015-02-26T11:44:49","date_gmt":"2015-02-26T10:44:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/?p=4644"},"modified":"2015-02-26T17:56:07","modified_gmt":"2015-02-26T16:56:07","slug":"talk-to-steph-is-he-too-old-for-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/?p=4644","title":{"rendered":"Talk To Steph: Is he too old for me?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I got this email\u00a0from a reader recently and it mirrors what lots of people are passing through in their relationships. The question of age difference is a serious one affecting lots of\u00a0relationships.<\/p>\n<p>SL Fabz, read her story below and give some useful advice:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Hello Steph, I turned 23 last year October and before I went home for the holidays (I study abroad) I prayed fervently to God to let meet someone because I have been single for like 3yrs. So I got home and started interning because I was bored of staying at home and on this day after I closed from work, I met this guy who asked to give me a lift. Fast forward to two weeks later, we bonded so well and I was so into him. I think I liked him.<\/p>\n<p>He\u00a0loves me so much, at least that&#8217;s what he said, and told me he wanted something serious with me. I agreed and then he asked what my Genotype was because he always has a problem with that. I wasn&#8217;t too sure so I went for a Genotype Test and I was AA which means we were good to go. He was very excited. He introduced me to his Mum, Dad and only sister all within my summer holiday. I met each of them on separate\u00a0occasions and they were very warm towards me (he&#8217;s the only son).<\/p>\n<p>A month after we met, I let him and we made love. I was a virgin and that broke his heart because he wept. Before I was due to leave Nigeria in October, \u00a0he asked me several times to marry him but I felt it was\u00a0too soon. We\u00a0had\u00a0been together for just 3MONTHS!! He&#8217;s everything I have always wanted in a man. He&#8217;s catholic, educated, matured, a good Christian from a good home and has a good job. But the thing is I&#8217;m 23 and he&#8217;s 36!! For some reason I think he is far older than me. What do you guys think. Is 13yrs too much? Should I go ahead and marry him?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>SL Fabz, please give her some good advice in dealing with this situation.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>*Remember, if you have a challenge in your relationship that you need advice for, please send an email to info@stephaniedaily.com with the subject \u2018Talk To Steph\u2019<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I got this email\u00a0from a reader recently and it mirrors what lots of people are passing through in their relationships. The question of age difference is a serious one affecting lots of\u00a0relationships. SL Fabz, read her story below and give some useful advice: Hello Steph, I turned 23 last year October and before I went home for the holidays (I study abroad) I prayed fervently to God to let meet someone because I have been single for like 3yrs. So I got home and started interning because I was bored of staying at home and on this day after I closed from work, I met this guy who asked to give me a lift. Fast forward to two weeks later, we bonded so well and I was so into him. I think I liked him. He\u00a0loves me so much, at least that&#8217;s what he said, and told me he wanted something serious with me. I agreed and then he asked what my Genotype was because he always has a problem with that. I wasn&#8217;t too sure so I went for a Genotype Test and I was AA which means we were good to go. He was very excited. He introduced [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4647,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[15],"tags":[532,533,531,27],"class_list":["post-4644","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-talk-to-steph","tag-age","tag-age-difference","tag-issues","tag-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4644","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4644"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4644\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4649,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4644\/revisions\/4649"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4647"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4644"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4644"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4644"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}