{"id":385,"date":"2012-09-05T10:57:57","date_gmt":"2012-09-05T10:57:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/?p=385"},"modified":"2012-09-05T10:59:49","modified_gmt":"2012-09-05T10:59:49","slug":"help-who-should-i-marry","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/?p=385","title":{"rendered":"Help! Who should I marry?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dear Stephanie,<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>There are two women in my life. One of them (let\u2019s call her Angela<\/strong>) I met during my NYSC four years ago and we\u2019ve been together ever since. I haven\u2019t proposed but our families are seriously aware that we are a couple and everyone is patiently expecting us to drop the date. She is pretty, kind, and seems very understanding for a woman \u2013 for example, when I cancel a date with her to watch football with the guys, she never complains; and for a man like me that is a great virtue \u2013 but the thing is, Angela has no drive, no ambition, all she wants to be is a wife and mother, and I find that very annoying! The other one (let\u2019s call her Lilian<\/strong>) I met on a random day when my car had issues \u2013 she actually stopped to help!!! I was shocked, impressed, and couldn\u2019t believe there was still a human being (especially a woman) like that! Through her help, we got a mechanic around that neighbourhood and the problem was fixed, I wanted to return the favour so I took her out on a date the next week. The truth is, Lilian mesmerizes me! No woman makes me feel the way she does. She is so mature in every way. We talk a lot, she shares valuable ideas on business and life, and I just find her a great inspiration and a wonderful lover! I love Angela \u2013 at least I\u2019ve known her longer, but Lilian has a spark! I can\u2019t really explain it \u2013 it\u2019s just magic! Lilian has dreams, and that is a great turn-on for me! We\u2019ve been together for one year and I find it so hard to go through the day without calling or meeting up with her!<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

The two women are unaware of the other\u2019s existence and that makes me feel bad because I am not a man that would intentionally cheat or double-date. What do I do? I hate to be cheating on these wonderful women. I know that ultimately the choice is mine, but if I have to ask, who do you think I should marry? – Chris<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dear Stephanie, There are two women in my life. One of them (let\u2019s call her Angela) I met during my NYSC four years ago and we\u2019ve been together ever since. I haven\u2019t proposed but our families are seriously aware that we are a couple and everyone is patiently expecting us to drop the date. She is pretty, kind, and seems very understanding for a woman \u2013 for example, when I cancel a date with her to watch football with the guys, she never complains; and for a man like me that is a great virtue \u2013 but the thing is, Angela has no drive, no ambition, all she wants to be is a wife and mother, and I find that very annoying! The other one (let\u2019s call her Lilian) I met on a random day when my car had issues \u2013 she actually stopped to help!!! I was shocked, impressed, and couldn\u2019t believe there was still a human being (especially a woman) like that! Through her help, we got a mechanic around that neighbourhood and the problem was fixed, I wanted to return the favour so I took her out on a date the next week. The truth is, Lilian […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":386,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,15],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-385","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","category-talk-to-steph"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/385","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=385"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/385\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":401,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/385\/revisions\/401"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/386"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=385"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=385"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=385"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}