{"id":3637,"date":"2014-08-01T11:54:09","date_gmt":"2014-08-01T10:54:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/?p=3637"},"modified":"2014-08-01T11:54:09","modified_gmt":"2014-08-01T10:54:09","slug":"talktosteph-he-insults-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/?p=3637","title":{"rendered":"#TalktoSteph: He insults me!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Hello everyone! Let\u2019s help Suze solve this issue\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000;\">Dear Stephanie,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">I need your advice. I am engaged and to be married to my fianc\u00e9 this December. It is a dream come true except that he is verbally abusive. When he is angry (and it takes very little to get him angry), he begins to insult me and says terrible things about me. Later on, he will apologise but the words never go away. It worries me that he says such hurtful things. He will call me \u201cugly\u201d \u201cgood for nothing\u201d \u201cstupid, foolish\u201d calls me a \u201charlot\u201d and even \u201cbad luck\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">I have spoken to my mother and she says he will change. I am fearful of building a life with a man who finds it easy to open his mouth and curse me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">I have tried to talk to him; he apologises but the next minute when he is upset he will start all over again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">I am getting resentful.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">What should I do?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8211;\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Suze<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hello everyone! Let\u2019s help Suze solve this issue\u2026 Dear Stephanie, I need your advice. I am engaged and to be married to my fianc\u00e9 this December. It is a dream come true except that he is verbally abusive. When he is angry (and it takes very little to get him angry), he begins to insult me and says terrible things about me. Later on, he will apologise but the words never go away. It worries me that he says such hurtful things. He will call me \u201cugly\u201d \u201cgood for nothing\u201d \u201cstupid, foolish\u201d calls me a \u201charlot\u201d and even \u201cbad luck\u201d. I have spoken to my mother and she says he will change. I am fearful of building a life with a man who finds it easy to open his mouth and curse me. I have tried to talk to him; he apologises but the next minute when he is upset he will start all over again. I am getting resentful. What should I do? &#8211;\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Suze<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3638,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[181,15],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3637","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-features","category-talk-to-steph"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3637","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3637"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3637\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3642,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3637\/revisions\/3642"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3638"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3637"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3637"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stephaniedaily.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3637"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}