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Stephanie’s Poll: Who Should Make The First Call?

Imagine this scenario:

A beautiful lady meets a handsome man somewhere. They have a great conversation and the chemistry in between them even at that first meeting is undeniable. They both have a good and comfortable time in each other’s company and feel their first meeting is the start of a wonderful union.

After spending about an hour together, they reluctantly part ways, but not before exchanging numbers. Now note, emphasis on ‘exchange’. Lady has guy’s number and guy has lady’s number.

One day, two days, four days, one week, two weeks pass after their meeting and… no phone call. Lady has been waiting patiently by her phone, with her heart in her mouth every time her phone rings, hoping its him. But he never calls….

If you were the lady, would you call him? In such a situation, who should make the first call?


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    March 27, 2015 at 5:09 pm

    I will definitely call if i like him and his personality! For goodness sake its a modern world now.No harm in trying your luck even the bible says that we should posses our possession.if i feel he is just my ideal guy i will ring him .Dont forget some guys are forgetful and some are not that

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    Racheal Laye Edward
    March 27, 2015 at 9:30 pm

    I will definitely make that call!

    Any1 can call

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      Mabel Okolo
      April 7, 2015 at 7:16 pm

      I think any1 can call, no1 has the sole responsibility of making the first call.

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    March 27, 2015 at 11:06 pm

    Anyone can call, but, most ladys like d man to call first jst 4 pretending sake

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    March 27, 2015 at 11:53 pm

    If I luv him “I will flash “.

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    March 28, 2015 at 9:48 am

    I’ll make the first , second and third call , if she doesn’t call me at least once , then I’ll know am wasting my time and i won’t call her anymore.

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    March 28, 2015 at 5:19 pm

    i wont call him first,why?courtsey demands he takes the lead as a man,other things i dont knw, his values,oriention etc cld stop me from calling him first,he may see you as desperate.wait for his call if he truly liks to start something wit you he will cal,then after a long while if he doesnt call,it simply means he’s not all that interested,then i can call n ask hw he is doing witout giving the wrong impression.

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      March 28, 2015 at 5:27 pm

      my point is you cant actually force pple into a relationship,if its gonna happen it will happen,do not give room for unnecessary heart acrh in yr life.

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    March 28, 2015 at 11:06 pm

    I wont call first. U kn y? D guy shud make d first
    move. In oda for me nt to appear desperate.

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    March 30, 2015 at 2:30 pm

    d guy should call first.
    (1)u know guys of nowadays feel so on top of d world especially if he’s an handsome or a rich guy.
    (2) he will believe ure all over him and ure desperate dats y u called.
    (3)Again guys read stupid meanings to some natural things.
    (4) incase something negative happen he will tell u he never called and that u called first.
    (5)(he believes u calling him first means u love him already)
    (6)he may not even ask u out again believing d relationship started d day u called.

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    birungi haphisah
    April 6, 2015 at 5:41 am

    i will kol first koz u know most ov the people are 4getful

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    April 7, 2015 at 9:07 pm

    dia’s noting bad in being d first person 2call, somtime me as a man giv room 2 measure a woman’s love through her number of callin 2me in a week, so anybody can be d first in castin d stone

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    April 13, 2015 at 8:11 am

    it’s high time African women kick back on this their so called pride. In life, wen u want something u are usually advice to go for it. what does it matter if it’s a man. It doesn’t matter if the lady makes the first call.

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    May 10, 2015 at 3:39 am

    I wouldn’t call him because I believe that our meeting should leave somthing unforgettable in him that will make him yearn to call. And if he doesn’t, then….. It wasn’t meant to be.

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    Once assumpta
    December 14, 2016 at 9:30 am

    I don’t think making d first call makes me desperate. I think it makes me matured nd responsible in d sense dat chemistry or no chemistry, (according to d scenario) we’ve spent some few hours talking nd weda he calls back or not we’re friends already. Calling him doesn’t mean we’re starting a relationship day instance. Calling him earns more respect for me. And by d way it also depends on d type of talk we both had actually. If he is a responsible guy nd I bliv he’s valuable to me, I’ll definitely give him dat call. Sometimes guys need a little encouragement from d ladies.

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