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Stephanie’s Poll : Is it okay to…. ?

STEPHANIE’S POLL

Hi dearies, it’s time for our Q’s and A’s, I ask and you answer, the question for this week is:

” If you are put on a spot, is it okay to go to the strip club with your man? Would you hold his hands and watch to pay for a private dance?  Do you think it is a good idea, what do you say?

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xoxo

SL

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    hilda
    June 29, 2013 at 4:09 am

    I won’t go to a strip club with my man.meaning other men will see me nude.its a Ω̴̩̩̩̥☺ Ω̴̩̩̩̥☺.

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    nononesense
    June 29, 2013 at 4:11 am

    No. That seems like a deviant behavior to engage in. Where does it end this “watching” your partner get erotic dancers drapped all over him?

    Besides, this is my man……for me alone. no sharing.

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    Okereke Kings Chidiebere JP
    June 29, 2013 at 4:28 am

    Just strolling by. Well That lady must have had an enduring n patient heart, and lol tolerance level. She must have been on a course to sustain the survival of her committment whatsoever but if I happen to be such man, I won’t disrespect my woman by thinking going there, inStead, I will make her my stripper and spend the money on her. Thatss what I call Value.

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    Onyi
    June 29, 2013 at 4:34 am

    It’s a terrible idea and shouldn’t be encouraged if you want to protect your marriage

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    wunmi
    June 29, 2013 at 5:03 am

    Its a no no, under no circumstance ll i allow dat bcos he is human and d fact dat i’m wit him does not mean he wont be aroused, he might even be tempted to go alone afterwards. ‘Resist d devil and he ll flee 4rm u’, why give he visa 4 free. I beg i no dey 4 dat 1.

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    ibe augusta
    June 29, 2013 at 5:19 am

    Nah…I don’t think I like that idea…I did prefer he went alone or never goes…really, that kind of place is a no go area for me…

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    slimcely
    June 29, 2013 at 5:23 am

    Gudmornin aunty steph.I think its not a good idea.have a fantastic weekend

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    vivian
    June 29, 2013 at 5:26 am

    Y would I do dat?please I would do no such tin.I will not take ma man to d slaughter house to b devoured.I won’t.

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    ify
    June 29, 2013 at 5:43 am

    i don’t think that sounds responsible to pole dance with your boyfriend or husband, because the minute you stop, he would go to someone else

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    Grace
    June 29, 2013 at 5:45 am

    I don’t think it’s a good idea. There’s this saying,” men are moved by what they see”, no matter how strong a man is, he could still fall.. I won’t advice any woman to do such cos she’lld be creating more room 4 her man to flirt.

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    jean
    June 29, 2013 at 5:48 am

    Wow….dats a bad idea..cos we knw d men get carried sometimes wit side attractions…but taking em there is like giving a rat fish to kip..lolz

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    onuoma chinonso
    June 29, 2013 at 6:04 am

    To be sincere i will never go to strip club with my man because no responsible man will see her girl strip in the club and still continue his good relationship with the girl even if he didn’t call it over after the Club just know that the relationship is going know where. And believe me when i say nobody likes to share his property with a stranger……….. They call it jealousy but i call it love.

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    jennifer
    June 29, 2013 at 6:37 am

    For no, I don’t think is ok.

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    Mitchell John
    June 29, 2013 at 6:51 am

    No for the questions. I dont bite the idear all perfect.

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    Gl Integrated Services
    June 29, 2013 at 7:04 am

    Gl Integrated Services are proud to be associated with stephanie and hence wish to state as well thats intent matters ,based on who really your man is and what you take him for .Hence can be judged based from previous acts and omissions as well as present state of mind.

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    angel
    June 29, 2013 at 7:12 am

    I don’t think I will like that.

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    Stephanie Edward
    June 29, 2013 at 7:30 am

    If u ask me I dnt think is a gud idea,for example If it’s white man, they don’t see it as a big deal but a black man, I don’t think is ok. Watching babe’s strip in front of my man, I won’t take it but If is someone I dnt wanna take serious, I might let him be,dats if his ok with it then no big deal.

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    Earlyne Dappa
    June 29, 2013 at 8:02 am

    Hmmm..ah will feel alittle jealous,bt I’ll be happi he did nt go wit his friends.cus dat would av bin worst!

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    Janie
    June 29, 2013 at 8:06 am

    For me, its not okay, there is nothing like ‘ if Ʊ re put on a spot’ its about choice, Ʊ decide and stand by ur decision no matter the consequences dat follow. So its a no! No! No! Very bad idea

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    muhammad halidu doma
    June 29, 2013 at 9:04 am

    Yea obviously If iam a woman and we go to a club and I donesnt know how to dance I will allow him to pay for a private dance just to make him happy and have what he came to look for in the club.but I won’t allow him to talk to any prostitute.

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    Joy Etim Enoh
    June 29, 2013 at 9:20 am

    Iam strongly against it because it’s paying money to watch immorality which is morally forbidden.It’s not a good idea that ‘s my opinion.

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    Candy Rex
    June 29, 2013 at 9:57 am

    In my opinion its not right. This is because I don’t see how this adds value to ones life.
    There’s no point to give room for things that might turn out to bring issues up.
    It starts from watching, to maybe having a lap dance, and tomorrow he might want to come alone or find himself alone there, might start having ideas/fantasies and from private he might want a’ more private’ dance. Its becoming an addiction and that is the beginning of your problem as a couple.
    My people say the river cannot drown who it does not see his legs; the best way to overcome temptation is to stay away from tempting situations. I know I can’t possibly monitor him or order him not to go but I can’t also give my endorsement for him to go there; there are so many other ways to have fun please. We can go to normal clubs or any other place. There’s just nothing in strip clubs and private lap dances. I can’t shout please. If you want to have fun, have it responsibly, lead not your man into temptation!

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    Missy May
    June 29, 2013 at 10:08 am

    Hell to the NO!! Unless I want to loose my man!! Allegedly gestures like this can spice up a relationship but I don’t believe that nonsense research!
    Why will I wanna do that when i can strip for him at home.My striptease will not match up to that of a professional stripper but the effort is what counts. And if my man doesn’t see that, then he’s an ungrateful man! Just the thoughts of another woman shaking his assets and twerking in front my man whiles taking her clothes off slowly disgusts me. MRS LINUS, this is NOT NOT NOT!!

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    badooo
    June 29, 2013 at 11:37 am

    i am a guy and if my girlfriend goes to the strip club with me and offers to pay for a strip dance…… wow! she’d be my bestfriend, means there is nothing i can’t tell, i would love that.

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    tsetsemi
    June 29, 2013 at 11:40 am

    i have done that with my husband before actually and i really didn’t like it, we were trying new things, just for the adventure. i made him promise never to do it again. i do it for him once in a while

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    joe
    June 29, 2013 at 11:44 am

    wow! i don’t think there is woman alive that will do that, though most men like to indulge and do this with friends once in a while. do i want my wife there with me? NO!!!! but it is better for he if she is, at least i won’t be too relaxed

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    megan
    June 29, 2013 at 11:49 am

    hell no! i won’t o, for what na? he shouldn’t even think about bringing it up o

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    Ezekiel Nwakwue
    June 29, 2013 at 12:33 pm

    Strip Club is not part of our Nigerian Culture, and if any naija man should decided to take his wife to a Strip Club, I suggest the should start looking for another husband because he does not have respect for her. I don’t care how exposed or Americanized one is, Strip Club is just for men who want to experiment or is for a man who is having problems with his wife and decided to go there to release tension. Another reason I would encourage a man to take his wife to a Strip Club is if both are on the “departure lounge” like Obasanjo would say. That is if the couple are in their 80s and the manhood is no longer working, then I would encourage both to go to Strip Club for the fun of it.

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    adefayo. adeyemi
    June 29, 2013 at 12:48 pm

    Helo stephaine I wil not encourage it cos can see any added value to d relationship in d act.

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    Racheal
    June 29, 2013 at 2:20 pm

    Y not…… But not wit me anyway…… It wud b much fone if he goes alone

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    NinibyNini
    June 29, 2013 at 2:25 pm

    No, it’s very bad to do a thing like that

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    stephanie
    June 29, 2013 at 4:30 pm

    for me i won’t allow it happen period

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    tunde
    June 29, 2013 at 5:58 pm

    i don’t know about other guys, i will never ask my girl to follow me to a strip club, strip? hell no, which mouth i wan take talk am, that kind place disgraces womanhood. i can’t even ask her, she’s too special

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    anita
    June 29, 2013 at 6:01 pm

    hmmmmm! what a funny question that deserves a straight answer, heavens nooooooooooo! #flips hair and walks away

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    BerryRouge
    June 29, 2013 at 10:31 pm

    NEVER!!!

    After day one, he will start looking forward to day two and soon we will be hitting day fifty-seven. It is not worth it. I believe it will destroy the relationship rather than build. Especially because such an act will surround you with canal things that wouldn’t edify your spirit. We can talk about it and find some other interesting thing to do to spark up our love life.

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    Chika
    July 1, 2013 at 9:06 am

    I dont see it as a bad idea to go to strip club with my man, as a matter of fact i will chose to go with him than allowing him go alone. but the part of holding his hands and watch to pay for a private dance, i may not do

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    flora
    July 3, 2013 at 9:57 am

    i can’t accept such a thing/76627505/cameroon

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    euphemia
    July 3, 2013 at 1:19 pm

    aunty stephie dear,i pray everyday day that my man will never think of a place like that.so for me, is neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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    debby
    July 3, 2013 at 3:50 pm

    Hi Steph! av done it before with my boyfriend sitting right next to him, it was fun as the girls came to both of us but we made them understand its a NO NO! Basically, if you want to try how your man can lust for another woman every woman should do this! Be extremely exeprimental…

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    HAMDALAT
    July 8, 2013 at 4:40 pm

    I ll rather go to the strip club with my man than to watch him have a private dance.

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