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Happy Endings…

What would you consider a happy ending? Man meets woman, ask woman out on a date, woman says ‘yes’ after playing hard to get, man and woman go on a date, they fall in love, they enjoy spending time together and they decide to make it permanent, man and woman get married and that’s the end? Sorry to break it to you; it’s actually the beginning of a brand new story. Happy ending is not getting married; happy ending is growing old together. Happy ending is making it work, with the one you really love, with the one that treats you right, even when everything is not looking good. 

It’s not every time that you would ‘feel’ in love with your husband or long term boyfriend, there are times you just loose the sparks in the relationship and he feels like an old buddy, it’s both of your duties to find your way back to that place instead of giving up. You might become distracted if you are having problems with your husband/boyfriend, “oh there is one cute guy in the office that listens to my issues;  oh he’s so attentive! he’s so caring! Oh my gosh, he’s this, he’s that”. But in reality, it’s all a façade. You probably said these same things about your man in the beginning. It’s better you work on your relationship instead of searching for a happy ending in the wrong places. Every relationship takes work, nothing good comes easy, you have to fight for it and if you have a man that is willing to get in the ring with you after putting a ring on it, you better work it out.

Now tell me, wouldn’t that be a very happy ending?

xoxo

SL

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    edwin nnaasua
    August 9, 2013 at 4:30 am

    It is. I agree with u.

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    edwin nnaasua
    August 9, 2013 at 4:31 am

    U ar right

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    O'Trudy
    August 9, 2013 at 5:08 am

    Yeah, someone who’s willing to get into the ring with you after putting a ring on it!
    I’m big on happy endings and we both have to take responsibility.
    Thank you for the word Steph!

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    Blessing Uzoma
    August 9, 2013 at 5:15 am

    Not yet married love to have a very good husband and I must take care of my marriage very serious

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      Blessing Uzoma
      August 9, 2013 at 5:25 am

      If you not responsible you will be happy to go out from your relationship like if there’s problem in your relationship instead for you to solve it that is when you will be finding fault from your partner rather you now meet someone that you love

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    grace udor
    August 9, 2013 at 5:17 am

    It wil be a very happy ending

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    slimcely
    August 9, 2013 at 6:09 am

    Gudday aunty steph,surely it will be a happy ending.when both get old n stil be happy with each other.

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    Nnebedum Nkiru bravery
    August 9, 2013 at 6:46 am

    After walking down the aisle with that man u lov so much & who equally loves u in return. Yes!!!! as u said, happy ending ℓ̊Ƨ̷̜̩̌̋ all about growing old togeda in lov like granny. All of that I believe can be achieved by making Jesus the master of the home.

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    frederick moseley
    August 9, 2013 at 8:19 am

    Yes. And Good Luck To All Relationships.

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    Abiri Ufuoma
    August 9, 2013 at 11:22 am

    Truly,a happy endn.ple shld try hard lyk u said 2 kp d fire of dir luv burning,rada dan go elsewhr(facade).kos d truth is dat no relatnshp is free 4rm hitches.

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    mimi
    August 9, 2013 at 10:17 pm

    A friend of mine has been dating this guy and he has asked her to marry him and she has agreed. The issue here is that she has aborted twice for him and now she’s pregnant and he’s still insisting that she abort it cos he’s not financially ready. What should she do at this present time cos there’s another guy whose ready to marry her right now. Thanks

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      stephaniedaily
      August 10, 2013 at 4:00 am

      See your question on ‘Talk To Steph’ post

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        mimi
        August 10, 2013 at 2:56 pm

        Thanks a lot for the post.

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    mimi
    August 10, 2013 at 2:56 pm

    Thanks a lot for the post.

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      stephaniedaily
      August 10, 2013 at 4:06 pm

      You are welcome. Please show your friend the post and the comments so she can weigh them and make wise decisions.

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