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Guys, what would you do?

Guys, it’s your turn!

You have been dating this lady for two years. You have been a good man to her, you have both talked about marriage and made casual plans about the future.

Then you decide to plan an elaborate proposal. You invite both your families and friends to a classy restaurant; you have purchased an expensive diamond ring…

She walks in, the place is dark so she cannot see all her family and friends. During dinner, with cool love music playing, the lights come on, she looks around and sees every familiar face, she is surprised.

You go down on one knee and ask her to be your wife.

“Sweetheart, will you marry me?”

She looks into your eyes and says…


Then walks out of the place.

What would you do?


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    July 9, 2014 at 8:40 pm

    I wil just console myself and move on but its only God dat would decide when i wil get married again coz it would be hard 4 me 2 talk 2 any lady again.

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    joyce amaka
    July 9, 2014 at 9:14 pm

    i wil b disappointed

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    July 9, 2014 at 9:58 pm

    I would feel she’s jokn. Its jst unimaginable. ℓ☺ℓ

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    julie Ekanem
    July 9, 2014 at 11:46 pm

    I will give her a second chance 4 another day and I will talk her into it dat I still love her..

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    Nnebedum Nkiru bravery
    July 9, 2014 at 11:49 pm

    Why will I say NO to a guy I’ve been dating all this while? If he’s good for friendship, he should be good for marriage. Sweetheart, I’ll feel shy, happy, suprised but will sharperly accept his proposal & the party don start be that ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥ Ooº°˚ ˚°ºoo. Who wan carry last?

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    Nnebedum Nkiru bravery
    July 10, 2014 at 12:02 am

    Less I forget, Congrats on U̶̲̥̅̊я upcoming Hollywood movie titled “Boonville Redemption” can’t wait to see u in action like one of my favorite actress Angelina Julie (Salt). Keep it up & may God see u tru.

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    Abigail Oduro
    July 10, 2014 at 12:20 am


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    Ekwom moses
    July 10, 2014 at 12:25 am


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    July 10, 2014 at 12:43 am

    I will want to met with her again to know why, I deserve to know after the life we’ve share. Maybe her answer will help me win her back or make myself better for the next woman.

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    Jeremiah Tarilado
    July 10, 2014 at 2:26 am

    How can she say NO kwanu
    After all the suffer that I have Suffer
    I no fit imagine am sef!
    Maybe na village winch things.
    But it will so pain ehn!
    I’ll seriously love to know why.
    Then I’ll move on with the scar of course and committing to other babes… Hmmmmm….
    E go hard o
    But no ellaborate proposal ever biko

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    Saleh Gaius
    July 10, 2014 at 5:27 am

    Hahahahahaha while, probabbly she is comfuse nd dawnfaunded ,is not every body dat like surpraises. I will do it again when only two of us r 2geda , i dont think she will refuse if truely she is my soul mate. Nd if she say no again den sometin is wrong some where 4dat she must convince me beyound reseonable daut, den i let it go . Thought it not gona b eazy since d Heart is broken! Nd pray 4 miss right.

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    Emmanuel Aig
    July 10, 2014 at 6:56 am

    First of all I think it’s wrong to propose in front of people, why? Because she may accept the proposal out of pity so as not to embarrass you. But if I were to be in the Man’s shoe I’ll leave quietly, I’ll give her some time and then we’ll talk about it cos she must have her reason(s). But shame go catch me small sha

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    sabbyekeji.... WHYTE
    July 10, 2014 at 11:10 am

    All tnks 2 GOD she said it earlier before our families and friends. so d die has been cast…..

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    July 10, 2014 at 12:53 pm

    Just as my friend Emmanuel said;”it is wrong to propose in front of people”. And again marriage is an institution slates by God.

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    July 10, 2014 at 4:00 pm

    Some guyz deserve dt kind of treatment,honestly u might be in dt relationship but wht u ar seeing is not really wht u want in a man and mayb u ar looking for an opportunity to jilt d relationship but d love u hav for him is stil blinfolded.within u’v conluded dt u can’t settle down wit dt kind of man.So whn u say no he’ll be like OMG!I don’t expect dis afer dis years.some guyz ar just gud for relationship not marriage at all.

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    July 10, 2014 at 4:08 pm

    Lemme give u an example or rada a lil of my life history,dis guy I’m currently dating d truest of d whole thing is dis I love him from d depth of my hat but mehn the things I’m getting in return is unbearable.I’v made up my hat to walk away but yet I’v not surgon up courage to quit him but dt is wht I’m abt doing.if he comes tommorrow to tell me pls can u be my wife my reply will be NO sori I can’t marry you.dia ar situation where love is not enuf.

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    Ekpem Meezy Godknows
    July 10, 2014 at 4:29 pm

    I will be Amazed……Don’t ask me why?
    But it will be an awesome Time…in the sense that my Fiancé is a Killer…and a Joy Destroyer…..I will readjust….And Fasten My Movement…. To make a speedy move in Locating the Right Woman for me….

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    torna judith
    July 10, 2014 at 6:21 pm

    It will be a bad day but i will still fines out what is d reason 4 her saying No becus she can’t say not without a reasion she know why that i we find out.

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    Owoyemi oluwashola
    July 10, 2014 at 7:43 pm

    Why wil i say no 2 a guy dat we’v bin datin 4r gud 2yr,surprise…immediaty i wil say YES

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    jedidah gadzama
    July 10, 2014 at 8:58 pm

    from that disappointment,I will know that she is not my life partner so instead of going back to her asking why she did that,I rather go on to look for my miss right.

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      July 11, 2014 at 3:20 am

      I bolive dar is dis second chance evrybody has in life,to me if u.truly lav de lady I fink u. Got to for d last tym if she insiste den u kn dat she is not ur feature wife.

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    Amadu Rahina
    July 11, 2014 at 12:26 am

    I will give her a second chance perhaps she did dat out of shyness maybe she wasnt expectin such a crowd

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    September 20, 2014 at 5:23 am

    Any woman that did that must have been hurting in that relationship and have concluded in her heart that this relationship will lead nowhere. I also think she was still in d relationship for one reason or the other apart from marriage.

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    January 6, 2015 at 12:26 pm

    Will ask her de reason why she said no,let go n heal de pain buh I’m not sure i can date again not to talk about marriage

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