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9 Types Of Men Women Avoid

Hi SL Fabz,

Yesterday, we discussed the topic 8 Types Of Women Men Avoid and I was so overwhelmed by the discussion and comments that followed. Apparently, this is a hot topic.

But did you think we were gonna talk about the women only? Nope!

Just as women are attracted to certain types of men, there are other types of men that women go out of their way to avoid. Are you looking out for a new relationship? To avoid the pain you undergo when things go wrong, here’s a list of nine types of men you should run miles away from.

The Non-Committed Guy
This is the guy that tells you he doesn’t want a relationship immediately, the guy that can’t/won’t call you his girlfriend when it’s way overdue, or the guy that’s over 30 and hasn’t had at least two serious relationships (or one very serious, 1+ years relationship).
It really doesn’t matter what his issues are, the bottom line is that this guy can’t see himself in a relationship with you. Do not try to change his mind, turn him around, or make him want it. You’re just going to waste your time.

The Mama’s Boy
The Mama’s Boy probably still lives with his parents in their house, allowing Mom to iron his clothes, make his bed and cook his meals. When a man delights in being waited on hand-and-foot by his mom, there’s trouble. He always asks his Mom before making major decisions in his life and its a big problem for you if his Mom doesn’t like you.

The Underachiever
You know the type. He sits at home playing video games all day and then goes to hang out with his guys at the club at night. If he has no hobbies, skills, or future aspirations outside of his living room, you know you’ve just encountered the attractive but exceedingly lazy underachiever. When searching for a man, you should always look for confidence, ambition and stability.

The Control Freak
Going out with this man is like dating your very strict father. At first, his embrace may seem warm and secure. But before long, you’ll be suffocating. It’ll start with going to the restaurants he chooses, seeing the movies he picks, hanging out with his friends and not yours. But eventually he tries to dictate everything, from what you wear to how you spend your free time. With a control freak, you have to give up more and more of your separate experiences, separate activities, separate friends. And then it goes deeper to separate thoughts and feelings until you no longer have an identity of your own.

The Gadget Freak
The gadget freak always likes to be called a ‘big boy’. He has the hottest phone and a decked-out luxury car. In other words, this guy has a lot of material things keeping him busy. As a grown-up kid who can’t resist the new plaything of the moment, he has a hard time keeping his attention on women. After all, who can compete with technology when it changes at lightning speed? This guy cares more about stuff than people. (Bad sign.) With this kind of outlook, women who date The Gadget Freak are often left wondering if an upgraded model will make them obsolete.

The Over Intimate Guy
If your guy is too eager for some intimacy, it’s never a good sign. For one, he may act as if he’s extremely into you just to get you into bed as soon as possible. He’s the kind of guy that looks deep into your eyes and tells you he never felt like this with any girl before just a few days after meeting him! This guy comes across as incredibly affectionate and might confuse you. If he’s the player type, this is all an act to get you into bed.

The Cheap Guy
He invites a woman to dinner and then subtly suggests she should pay the bill. He never splurges to buy her gifts and he always opts for the cheapest stuff available. He makes her feel like they’re on a tight budget from the very first date. It’s just a few weeks into the relationship and he’s already asking her for loans he would never pay back. Ladies, this is someone to run away from.

The Cheater
The Cheater doesn’t try to hide the fact that he’s checking out other women while in her presence; he flirts with the waitress and he even goes as far as to brag about his past girlfriends. Overall, he lacks respect for women. It’s a sad fact of life that some men are apt to cheat on their wives and girlfriends, it should become clear that most cheaters won’t change. Ladies, it’s time to let him go once and for all. Send the cheater packing and save the relationship that matters most – the relationship you have with yourself!

The One Who Doesn’t Like Your Family
Nobody has a perfect family, but if your guy consistently says he doesn’t want to be around your family, refuses to attend events where they are present, or is generally rude to them, this is a huge warning sign for problems in the future. He should love you for you, not your family, and he should respect you enough to treat them with kindness, regardless of how he feels.

Do you have any more qualities to add to this list? Do women really avoid such type of men?

Let’s discuss!

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21 Comments

  • Reply
    Chris
    January 7, 2015 at 12:27 pm

    i acknowlege your write up. keep it up

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    Pierre Cephas R.
    January 7, 2015 at 1:16 pm

    I just discovered this wonderful page now! Very interesting topics to read. I’m loving it.

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    chioma
    January 7, 2015 at 1:32 pm

    How do you know when a guy trurly loves you and will want to spend his whole life with yo,please can I know

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      Jay
      January 7, 2015 at 4:35 pm

      You can never know. Go to the one that knows the heart of men and let him Choose for u. JESUS. That’s all dear

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    Ekpem Meezy Godknows
    January 7, 2015 at 2:20 pm

    Wow……Lady Stephanie….you are indeed a genius…..OMG!!! As for Me….I sincerely detest Men with all those ugly Characters you Mentioned…,Hmmmm.I’m good a Joy distributor and Fun to be with always…my Woman(wife) to be Must be the Most Happiest Woman on Earth

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    Nokwe
    January 7, 2015 at 2:42 pm

    Wow m inspired and I learnt that I am one or two of those women that men avoid. I soooo wanna learn more

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    Lilian
    January 7, 2015 at 3:22 pm

    Steph, you are right, but u know d kind of society we find ourselves, we always believe that some one can always change. So how can a woman who is deeply inlove with such a guy give up d relationship she must ve invested in for years. Though, knowing d truth and going by it is d best thing, but how many ladies can afford to do this when d latest trend in our society now is”everyone is getting married, I don’t want to be left behind” smile**** you knw wat I mean. We (ladies) believe in change and it is wrong.

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    Racheal Laye Edward
    January 7, 2015 at 6:00 pm

    Wow!
    this lists is off da hook!
    Kudos.

    If I may add;
    The Negative guys: they never see gud in anything u do. They are abusive n mean n they see nothing wrong in that.

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    jasmine
    January 7, 2015 at 8:16 pm

    women should also avoid men who are insecured and extremly jealous

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    Gemma
    January 7, 2015 at 11:06 pm

    I love this!

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    golden
    January 8, 2015 at 9:56 am

    women should avoid men that has a temperament issue. especially “woman beaters”. pls run!!!

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    Fayo
    January 8, 2015 at 11:06 am

    Men who don’t have direction and purpose. I see them as more pathetic. They can’t make meaningful decisions as what to channel their time and resources to. They will just help waste your time and resources. Give me a purposeful Man, and I will make him my Crown!

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    ann
    January 8, 2015 at 11:06 am

    Thanks for d write I have been involve in no 2 n it was not funny d end result was break up I still regret it up till today

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    angela
    January 8, 2015 at 3:23 pm

    I love tis page very much. Bt hw abut a long distance relationship?

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      Julius
      January 9, 2015 at 5:19 pm

      The key factor to build a distant relationshil is communication.
      Communication can be a great barrier in maintaining a relationship when it involves long distance to separate you. However, it depends on how you work it out to minimize if not totally eliminate problems caused by communication. Even in our modern technology today, where gadgets are out in the market to settle your communication problems, still many conflicts arises from it. Communication problems seem to hover in every corner of your relationship to instantly subject you to a test of patience. How many times had you attempted to walk out of your relationship when your partner failed to receive your calls or reply back to your text messages? Many ideas and thoughts would then run wild in your mild making you crazy as well, especially, when you are the jealous type. For both of you, you need to build up a strong communication in order to minimized arising of communication conflicts.
      I can go on and on, but I can’t write everything here. If you would like to read more, click in my name above.

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    eedrisa
    January 9, 2015 at 6:34 am

    Laughable,and unintelligent comment.

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    Uche
    January 9, 2015 at 11:10 am

    Dat is true bt hw can a lngtyme relationship endure d pains n heartbroken cop wit such. Dere r sum gals dat luv guys. hw r dey going to cop wit such guys dat r mentioned?

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    prisca
    January 9, 2015 at 1:35 pm

    Awesome saying dear.how I wish women could stand up for their rights to avoid some of these men.instead of holding up to them tight despite all odds.and ridiculing themselves.

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    shadebade
    January 9, 2015 at 5:15 pm

    This is a very good write up buh its not all that u hav listed in men cos sum of it are included in types of women men avoid..name it there golddiggers in men,over dominary men if I must say a lot mehn..honestly one jst can’t turn back the hands of time..it is when u start d journey,in that journey u learn a lot,see d unseen&expect d unexpected..finally,all men&women bth v d same trait its jst d gender dts different..shikena

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    Gwen
    January 10, 2015 at 12:34 pm

    Nice write top i wish women will learn to be indpended see no wats rite n wrong for them n make better choices in life n stop being asham n disgracing themsleves .

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    Mary Yeboah
    January 11, 2015 at 8:59 am

    Thanks for the good information. It is very bad for a guy to talk about his ex girlfriend. Every tips are true

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